Enhancing Conversations with Respectful Language in HIV Prevention

Respectful Language
Enhancing our Engagement and Enriching our Conversations
Montica Levy, MPH
Biomedical HIV Prevention Coordinator
San Francisco City Clinic, San Francisco Department of Public Health
Agenda
1.
Why does respectful language matter?
2.
Examples of respectful language
Supporting trans clients and their partners
3.
Open discussion/Q+A
Why does respectful language matter?
We want people who could benefit from PrEP to stay engaged in it
We want to be a welcoming place for diverse community members to
work
Language is one of the most basic ways to show respect
Respect is how we gain trust
We choose whether we build or break trust with the client
Rapport and trust: the virtuous cycle
We have once chance to make a good
first impression
If we make good first impression, patient
will eventually take more and more
(emotional) risks with us, be more
vulnerable and open
If we punish a risk even unknowingly, the
patient will not take another risk for a
while, maybe even at other clinics
So we must make it safer and safer for
them to take more and more risks with us
Note: my use of “risk” here is different
from “risk” as a term used in HIV
prevention – we will discuss that soon
Rapport and trust
 
Video time
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISsdS
vJhniQ
Video debrief
1.
How does the topic of this
video apply to our work
counseling people about their
needs related to HIV
prevention and sexual health?
2.
Where in the conversation was
trust likely to get broken?
Take notes to report back out 
Trust has three drivers: authenticity, logic, and
empathy
People tend to trust you when
they
believe they are interacting with
the real you (authenticity)
have faith in your judgment and
competence (logic), and
feel that you care about them
(empathy)
When trust is lost, it can almost
always be traced back to a
breakdown in one of these 3
Adapted from https://hbr.org/2020/05/begin-with-trust
Examples of respectful
language
 
People-first language
Ensure that the language puts people first
Just like we can build or break trust, we can create or combat stigma
Adapted from https://www.thewellproject.org/hiv-information/why-language-matters-facing-hiv-stigma-our-own-words
Supporting trans clients and
their partners
 
Taking a sexual history
Do you have sex with men, women, or both?
What were the genders of your sex partners?
What body parts do you use for sex?
Why ask this way?
Help clients feel seen, not othered, builds trust
Ask an open-ended question, get an open-ended answer!
A LOT of cis straight men have sex with trans women but are never asked about it and so
are not offered crucial HIV prevention services to protect them and their trans women
partners
Mirror the
client’s words
They may say something you did
not expect
Say it back whenever you are
comfortable doing so
Common examples:
“I f**ked 6 guys this weekend”
“Yes, we barebacked and he came
inside me”
“Um…we had…um…anal intercourse?”
The Gender Binary
“There are only two
sexes/genders”
Orders everything about life
from the first ultrasound
Transgender
An umbrella term for people
whose gender identity and/or
gender expression differs from
what is typically associated with
the sex they were assigned at
birth.
This is why the two-part
question asks about sex
assigned at birth and current
gender identity. For trans
people, these are rarely the
same.
Cisgender
People who are NOT
transgender
Cisgender people have a gender
identity that is the same as the
sex assigned to them at birth
Most people are cisgender
When we name a group of
people, we call them out as
being different. The word
cisgender balances the field. It’s
also specific, so we know what
we’re talking about.
Poll: Two-part
gender/sex
question
Does your current clinic/agency ask
about gender and sex in a separated,
two-part question?
A.
We ask a two-part question
B.
We ask one question only
 
The Two-Part
Question
1. What is your gender? 
(Check one that
best describes your current gender identity.)
(1) Male
(2) Female
(3) Trans Male
(4) Trans Female
(5) Genderqueer / Gender Non-binary
(6) Not listed, please
specify____________________
 
The Two-Part
Question
2. What was your sex assigned at birth?
(Check 
one
)
(1) Male
(2) Female
Why a two-part question?
Allows trans people to be counted
Creates consistency in terminology and
coding
Not all trans people identify as transgender
Concise and feasible
Reduced patient harms/dissatisfaction due to
a failure to use chosen names and pronouns
Teaches all people about what transgender
means
A few definitions
Trans Male: 
People who were assigned
female at birth but identify and live as a man
may use this term to describe themselves
Trans Female
Trans Female: 
People who were assigned
male at birth but identify and live as a
woman may use this term to describe
themselves.
Genderqueer
Genderqueer / Gender Non-binary: 
people who experience their
gender identity and/or gender expression as falling outside the
categories of man and woman. They may define their gender as falling
somewhere in between man and woman, or they may define it as
totally different from these terms.
What terms to use?
It boils down to dignity
How would we want people to talk about us?
Again, mirror the terms a client uses to define themselves
Use their correct pronoun and correct name
 
 
Adapted from https://www.glaad.org/reference/
 
 
Adapted from https://www.glaad.org/reference/
 
 
Adapted from https://www.glaad.org/reference/
 
 
Adapted from https://www.glaad.org/reference/
 
Some other DON’Ts
MTF/male-to-female
FTM/female-to-male
 
trans  woman
trans  man
 
Some other DON’Ts
transwoman
transman
 
trans  woman
trans  man
 
Two words, with a space in between
Open
discussion/Q+A
Please share your thoughts
and questions!
Thank you!
montica.levy@sfdph.org
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  1. Respectful Language Enhancing our Engagement and Enriching our Conversations Montica Levy, MPH Biomedical HIV Prevention Coordinator San Francisco City Clinic, San Francisco Department of Public Health

  2. Agenda 1. Why does respectful language matter? 2. Examples of respectful language Supporting trans clients and their partners 3. Open discussion/Q+A

  3. Why does respectful language matter? We want people who could benefit from PrEP to stay engaged in it We want to be a welcoming place for diverse community members to work Language is one of the most basic ways to show respect Respect is how we gain trust We choose whether we build or break trust with the client

  4. Rapport and trust: the virtuous cycle We have once chance to make a good first impression If we make good first impression, patient will eventually take more and more (emotional) risks with us, be more vulnerable and open If we punish a risk even unknowingly, the patient will not take another risk for a while, maybe even at other clinics So we must make it safer and safer for them to take more and more risks with us Note: my use of risk here is different from risk as a term used in HIV prevention we will discuss that soon Take risk Trust built Risk rewarded

  5. Rapport and trust Take risk Patient leaves Risk punished Trust broken

  6. Video time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISsdS vJhniQ

  7. 1. How does the topic of this video apply to our work counseling people about their needs related to HIV prevention and sexual health? 2. Where in the conversation was trust likely to get broken? Video debrief Take notes to report back out

  8. Examples of respectful language

  9. People-first language Ensure that the language puts people first Just like we can build or break trust, we can create or combat stigma

  10. Stigmatizing Language Destigmatizing Language HIV-infected person HIV or AIDS patient, AIDS or HIV carrier Person living with HIV; PLWH Never use "infected" when referring to a person Zero new infections Zero new HIV transmissions HIV infections HIV transmissions; diagnosed with HIV Number of infections Number diagnosed with HIV; number of HIV acquisitions Became infected Contracted or acquired; diagnosed with Serodiscordant couple Serodifferent, magnetic, or mixed-status couple, couple with two different HIV statuses Compliant Takes the pill every [how often] Prostitute or prostitution Sex worker; sale of sexual services; transactional sex Promiscuous This is a value judgment and should be avoided. Use "multiple partners . Sex without condoms, PrEP, treatment-as-prevention methods Condomless sex with PrEP Condomless sex without PrEP Condomless sex Unprotected sex Referring to yourself or others as being "clean" suggests that those living with HIV are dirty. Avoid this term. Clean, as in "I am clean, are you?" A drug that prevents HIV infection A drug that prevents the transmission/acquisition of HIV Risk means a lot of things so just say what you mean: The specific behavior? Chance of acquiring HIV in the next year? Chance of individual sex act transmitting HIV? Risk/risky Adapted from https://www.thewellproject.org/hiv-information/why-language-matters-facing-hiv-stigma-our-own-words

  11. Supporting trans clients and their partners

  12. Taking a sexual history Do you have sex with men, women, or both? What were the genders of your sex partners? What body parts do you use for sex? Why ask this way? Help clients feel seen, not othered, builds trust Ask an open-ended question, get an open-ended answer! A LOT of cis straight men have sex with trans women but are never asked about it and so are not offered crucial HIV prevention services to protect them and their trans women partners

  13. Mirror the client s words They may say something you did not expect Say it back whenever you are comfortable doing so Common examples: I f**ked 6 guys this weekend Yes, we barebacked and he came inside me Um we had um anal intercourse?

  14. The Gender Binary LOL! There are only two sexes/genders Orders everything about life from the first ultrasound

  15. An umbrella term for people whose gender identity and/or gender expression differs from what is typically associated with the sex they were assigned at birth. Transgender This is why the two-part question asks about sex assigned at birth and current gender identity. For trans people, these are rarely the same.

  16. People who are NOT transgender Cisgender people have a gender identity that is the same as the sex assigned to them at birth Most people are cisgender When we name a group of people, we call them out as being different. The word cisgender balances the field. It s also specific, so we know what we re talking about. Cisgender

  17. Poll: Two-part gender/sex question Does your current clinic/agency ask about gender and sex in a separated, two-part question? A. We ask a two-part question B. We ask one question only

  18. 1. What is your gender? (Check one that best describes your current gender identity.) (1) Male The Two-Part Question (2) Female (3) Trans Male (4) Trans Female (5) Genderqueer / Gender Non-binary (6) Not listed, please specify____________________

  19. 2. What was your sex assigned at birth? (Check one) The Two-Part Question (1) Male (2) Female

  20. Why a two-part question? Allows trans people to be counted Creates consistency in terminology and coding Not all trans people identify as transgender Concise and feasible Reduced patient harms/dissatisfaction due to a failure to use chosen names and pronouns Teaches all people about what transgender means

  21. A few definitions Trans Male: People who were assigned female at birth but identify and live as a man may use this term to describe themselves

  22. Trans Female Trans Female: People who were assigned male at birth but identify and live as a woman may use this term to describe themselves.

  23. Genderqueer Genderqueer / Gender Non-binary: people who experience their gender identity and/or gender expression as falling outside the categories of man and woman. They may define their gender as falling somewhere in between man and woman, or they may define it as totally different from these terms.

  24. What terms to use? It boils down to dignity How would we want people to talk about us? Again, mirror the terms a client uses to define themselves Use their correct pronoun and correct name

  25. Adapted from https://www.glaad.org/reference/

  26. Adapted from https://www.glaad.org/reference/

  27. Adapted from https://www.glaad.org/reference/

  28. Adapted from https://www.glaad.org/reference/

  29. Some other DONTs MTF/male-to-female FTM/female-to-male trans woman trans man

  30. Some other DONTs transwoman transman trans woman trans man Two words, with a space in between

  31. Open discussion/Q+A Please share your thoughts and questions!

  32. Thank you! montica.levy@sfdph.org 33

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