Challenges Faced by Survivors and Overcoming Deception

Emotional instability, psychiatric symptoms, and programmed responses plague survivors of trauma. The key to recovery lies in recognizing and challenging the deception perpetrated by abusers.

• Trauma
• Deception
• Recovery
• Programming
• Survivor

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1. Alison Miller

2. Two Problems Survivors Experience Emotional instability and psychiatric symptoms Inability to keep physically safe from the perpetrator group Both problems are related to programming. Programming is training of child insiders (alter personalities) to do jobs assigned by the perpetrators. To heal you must get insiders to act against their programming. Insiders may choose to do this if they realize how the perpetrators (including family) deceived them.

3. Is that the perpetrators know where you are, what you do and say, what you think.

4. Attention, Inner Leaders I want your inner leaders to pay attention; I am talking to you, not the front person. You are the key to recovery. You can tell the rest of the system to change their loyalty, to be loyal to your own true self. Why should you do this?... Because you have been deceived by the abusers The biggest deception The BIG LIE is that the abusers know everything you do. They don t.

5. Some Versions of The BIG LIE We know everything and are all-powerful. We have magical (for young children) or technological (for older children) ways of knowing what you think and do and say. The walls have ears. Satan s eyes/the All-Seeing Eye watch you. We live in the shadows or in the walls. The crows/squirrels/spiders report to us. Your stuffed animals report to us. A microchip/device implanted in your body tells us where you are and what you are thinking/saying. A bomb in your body will go off if you are disloyal. Everyone you know is linked to us and will report to us. God/Lucifer/Satan (who is omnipotent, omniscient, and omni-present) is always watching you. All these things are simulated when you are a child, using hidden microphones, one-way mirrors, fake surgeries, and other deceptions. It s all tricks. If the abusers knew everything about you, why would they need to tell you these things?

6. Stopping the Internal Punishment

7. Destabilizing Symptoms in Trauma Survivors Include traumatic intrusions such as flashbacks, nightmares, body memories, and emotional states of sadness, anxiety and despair. These are post-traumatic symptoms. Self-harm and suicide attempts are often methods trauma survivors use to try and reduce these unbearable intrusions. Physical pain drives away emotional pain. But in survivors of ritual abuse and mind control, these symptoms, and the self-harm and suicide attempts, are programmed responses inside kids doing their jobs to punish you for remembering or talking about the abuse.

8. Things That Dont Work Therapists who don t recognize programming in their clients Teach grounding techniques Teach mindfulness Try to teach survivors to self-soothe, take bubble baths, and cuddle stuffed animals Give medication to stop the symptoms Use religious or spiritual interventions And feel despair when these methods don t work well enough.

9. Therapy Destabilizes In the early stages of a survivor s pursuit of recovery, insiders who live in the past follow abusers instructions: The very behaviors which represent destabilization with other trauma survivors or dissociative people, such as self-harm, suicide attempts, painful body memories, nightmares and flashbacks are triggered to occur if the mind-control or ritual abuse survivor breaks the abusers rules. Trained child insiders do their jobs in fear of death or torture to themselves or others if they disobey.

10. The Abusers Basic Rules Silence don t disclose about the abuse Maintain a fa ade of normalcy, or of craziness if you ve been discarded for saying too much Obedience to past and present abusers Loyalty to past and present abusers Isolation from outsiders Breaking these rules brings on internal punishment.

11. Two Major Mistakes of Therapists Helping the good parts of the personality system battle with the punishers or threateners. Not recognizing that a survivor s flooding of feelings or flashbacks or suicide attempts or self-harm are deliberately created by inside parts doing their assigned jobs This makes things worse. The punishers and threateners are trying to keep you safe.

12. Some Kinds of Internal Punishment Creating physical pain or apparent illness with no current cause Causing apparent seizures (using electroshock memories) Causing extreme depression, mood swings, flooding of unpleasant emotions Causing flashbacks and nightmares Causing intermittent learning disabilities, or scrambling of sensory information Creating hallucinations and delusions, distorting what people say Causing internal world disasters (flood, lightning, fire, tornado, earthquake) which were simulated in childhood and seem to be happening again. Causing insiders to cut or burn the body, especially with patterns or symbols of loyalty Unsuccessful suicide attempts

13. Simulated Mental Illnesses When a perpetrator group has difficulty getting hold of a survivor, they may use triggers to turn on programs which simulate mental illnesses, in the hope that these crazy behaviors will get the survivor hospitalized and they can then access them. Insomnia Emotional flooding Flashbacks and hallucinations Rapid switching and scrambled speech Delusions of being an animal or Jesus or a celebrity Paranoia I know how all these programs are made, but I won t tell you. Just know that they are programs, and you (especially your internal leaders) can just say turn it off and make the programs stop running. Programmed is not crazy.

14. How Internal Punishment Works The insider with the job takes a piece of a traumatic memory, such as the feeling of despair or the sight of someone dressed up as Satan or God, or the sound of a baby crying, or the sensation of pain. Spinner insiders spin this out to the rest of the system so that the front person and others will experience it as if is happening in the present.

15. Stopping Programmed Symptoms Bring yourself back into the present by opening your eyes, naming things in the room, naming the sounds you hear in the room, putting your hands on your clothing, drinking water. Ask the insiders in charge to turn off the program and let you know why they turned it on. Ask them what rule you have broken. Negotiate with the insiders causing the flashback or hallucination or intense emotional state, not the ones experiencing it. If you or certain insiders know off triggers for that program, you or your therapist may use them (with permission).

16. Backups Insiders with jobs have bosses, and backups. That little kid inside who turns on the flashback or feels he really has to cut your body may be controlled by someone else inside who tells him he has to do it, and punishes him internally (e.g. with pain from a memory) if he doesn t do his job. And his backup may take over his job if he quits it. But backups are easy to convince if the first kid was convinced. You just have to look for them and talk to them. You can be proactive about backups; ask for them to listen and join in when you re working with the first part.

17. Self-Harm & Suicide Attempts Certain insiders are trained to harm the body or attempt suicide in specific ways if a survivor is disloyal or discloses secrets. Perpetrators or other survivors can give cues to trigger this behavior. These are not intended to be lethal unless important disclosures have been made. RA/MC survivors attempt suicide more than other extreme abuse survivors, but their success rate is no higher. Parts who punish or try to kill often don t feel pain or believe they aren t part of the body. Show these parts that they are in the same body with the others. Draw on the body s hand, then ask the parts who are supposed to harm or kill the body to come out and look at it. Groups don t like to waste all their training work by having their victims die. There s a don t die program, usually involving fear of going to hell. Programming for successful suicide may involve a sequence of parts, and is triggered only when the group has really given up on you.

18. Perpetrators Lies which Induce Self-Harm and Suicide Attempts If someone in you is a traitor, you must mark your body to prove your loyalty so that we won t kill you, since we know about the traitor. It is honorable for a soldier or a religious devotee to die for the cause. If you kill the body when it is traitorous, you will be rewarded in the afterlife. If you are a traitor, you must kill yourself before the group (who knows everything) kills you very painfully. If you are a traitor, you should kill yourself before the bomb in your stomach goes off. Your life will always be so unbearable that it is better to die (accompanied by flooding of feelings from very bad memories). The angel of the sunset (or angel of mercy) welcomes you and will free you from this pain. Since you are a demon or a ghost (part), you can kill the traitorous body without dying yourself (or your special powers will bring you back to life and the traitor parts will be dead.) (Anesthetic drugs make non-human parts unable to feel anything in the body, so they believe they do not belong to it.) This is the riskiest suicide training, and is implemented when very central security is breached.

19. Slow down to Stabilize Befriend your insiders. Work your way up the system hierarchy by treating all parts with kindness. Establish rapport with the internal leaders whose job is to ensure loyalty. Show these leaders, and those continuing contact with perpetrators, how they were deceived. You may have a program to keep the front people separated from the insiders. Internal leaders can still lead the healing without the front person knowing what they re doing. Delay memory work until those in charge inside are ready to permit it.

20. Dont Hurry and Dont Investigate You are not a detective, even if you have insiders who see themselves that way. The purpose of therapy is healing, not finding out the secrets. Do not rush to find things out before the insiders in charge of your system are ready. If you rush for disclosures or memories, this will provoke insiders to do their jobs of destabilization and reporting to abusers. When your internal leaders are ready, and you know you have physical safety, then and only then can you begin to work with your traumatic memories.

21. Getting away from the perpetrator group Defeating your access programming

22. Access Programming Every survivor has access programming to ensure they stay in contact with abusers and tell them the abuser group if any outsider like a therapist is becoming aware of their memories or inner parts, or if the person is beginning to remember. Survivors are often not physically safe from abusers. Survivors are often mistaken about whether they re currently safe. Healing begins with establishing actual physical safety.

23. Extreme Abuse Survey: Heightened Safety Issues for Client Therapist discovered survivor was reporting to perpetrators about therapy: Other Extreme Abuse 20% RA/MC 50% Therapist discovered abuse was ongoing: Other Extreme Abuse 40% RA/MC 64% and this is when the therapist had found out about it. It took me a long time to discover my first RA/MC clients were still involved with the perpetrator group.

24. The Big Lie Plus Some Tricks Internal leaders: What the abusers tell you about knowing where you are and what you say or do or think are lies. Instead, it is hidden parts of you (insiders) who tell them your whereabouts or report when you have disobeyed orders. These reporters are hidden from the system leaders. There are also hidden insiders whose job is to return home in response to cues or misbehavior, or who have to come when called.

25. Insiders who Maintain Group Contact Reporters report about disclosures you have made, therapy sessions & plans you may have made to relocate. Returners have been told to return to the group on significant dates like birthdays, or predetermined ritual dates, or years when you reach a certain age. Insiders who come when called feel compelled to respond to access triggers (answer the phone, open the door, cross the street in response to a hand signal). Front people are called to go home for supposed family emergencies.

26. Inner Leaders are not told that their only power is internal, to give commands to younger kids inside but they have no real power in the external world. about the reporters inside, who are usually young kids. Inner leaders are supposed to believe the group knows things by magic or science or surveillance. how the perpetrator group gets hold of them. They just find themselves called out by the perpetrators and don t know how they got there.

27. Preventing or Stopping Reporting Internal leaders, find out how the abusers said they knew things, and how they proved it. Then ask your insiders how the perpetrators magic knowledge was actually obtained. Ask to speak with the reporters. Tell them to stop reporting in order to prevent re-abuse. Reporters are often young kids who believe what adults tell them. Ask them why the abusers would need them to report if they already know everything. Update young insider children about where they live now and what year it is. They often don t know. Point out that it s easy for adults to keep track of a child, but not of an adult who s moved away. Relocation is mostly useless until reporting is disabled (though the further away you move, the more likely you are to be safe.) 27

28. If you cant find reporters, or if reporters won t cooperate If reporters won t cooperate, have the system put them to sleep after the first five minutes of your therapy session and wake up near the end when you re talking about nothing much, Another method is to make the reporters forget what happened, substituting a memory of a harmless session, You can have reporters report to the inner leaders instead of to outside people. Any other ideas?

29. Calling Home If a survivor discloses secrets, an insider who loves family feels an urge to call home. This person (usually a child) calls (or answers the phone when family calls) and remembers only a normal conversation. The family member or handler calls out a reporter who tells what is happening in therapy and describes any disloyalty. The family member calls out other insiders and gives them orders, e.g. harass the therapist, cut your arms, or come to the next ritual. Cards or gifts or emails may contain deliberate triggers to set off programs.

30. Training to Return Often a survivor is supposed to return to the perpetrators if some insiders, or the front person, have been disloyal. You may feel a desperate need to return to the group or to the place where you grew up to: find out the facts of what happened, get revenge, avoid punishment (because you believe they know everything), have a disabling program turned off (be fixed ), save someone else, or get rewards (for higher-up parts), like sex or drugs or supposed promotions. All these are tricks. Specific insiders have these programs, and return to specific group members who are waiting for them and know what to do with them. If you feel a strong urge to do one of these things, it s a program.

31. If a Survivor Returns: Reporters report disclosures you have made or memories you have recalled. (Reporters are also known as recorders because they memorize exact words.) Punishment is administered for disobedience or disloyalty. Disobedient insiders may be replaced in their jobs with backups. Old program training is repeated. You may be forced to harm someone else to demonstrate loyalty. You may be drugged and your therapist may be impersonated. The therapist impersonator assaults you verbally, physically or sexually. You and other people are threatened If you disobey again, a child will be hurt. There is electroshock to make you forget the recontact.

32. Come When Called Training When a survivor is no longer returning or reporting, he or she may still be accessible because of inside kids trained to respond to cues from the perpetrators. Cues include: Specific sounds such as 3 phone rings, a car honk, beeping sounds, or a pattern of knocks on the door Visual hand signals Visual or word triggers in mail or emails or texts Some inside kids are trained to always answer the phone or open the door or go to the handler, afraid for their lives if they don t. Addicted insiders are trained to go outside to get drugs; they feel drug withdrawal symptoms when triggered.

33. More about Hand Signals Hand signals are used to give messages to particular insiders in a mind-controlled personality system. They may say Come here, Don t listen to that person, Turn on the flashbacks or various other things. An insider may give another survivor a hand signal while the front person is unaware it is happening. Many hand signals are disguised as ordinary movements, such as brushing hair back from your face or adjusting your glasses. When survivors are going to be around other survivors, perpetrators may give some people s insiders instructions to use hand signals on the other survivors.

34. Sitting Duck Training Some kids are trained to keep still and silent, and not to run away. Some are trained not to leave town (with a fear of devastating accidents which have been simulated). Group members fish for survivors in churches, survivor groups, psychiatric hospitals and group programs. They use cues to trigger these survivors to reveal themselves to them or come with them.

35. 2 Common Mistakes of Therapists Not recognizing that current contact with perpetrators and possible re-abuse is a major concern, and that the client may report anything disclosed in therapy to perpetrators and be punished for disclosures. Buying into a survivor s mistaken belief that perpetrators know everything and are everywhere and all-powerful and that the client and/or the therapist will be killed if the client tells secrets.

36. Some Safety Precautions for Survivors If there s current danger, try to have a safe spouse or roommate who can be informed and stay with you whenever you go out. Turn off the phone ringer, and get a hidden email address for safe people. Open letters and parcels only in the therapy office, where you can discuss the meaning of any triggers with your therapist. Any suggestions about cell phones, text messages and other social media? Inner leaders can tell insiders to turn off the programs or refuse to act on their programming. The most thorough solution is to work through the memories of the access trainings. Marathon therapy sessions dealing with this can be effective. Record all information about present abusers, and give it to more than one person who will give this information to police and to the media if any harm comes to you.

37. Some Safety Precautions for Therapists Record all information about present abusers, and let your survivor client know that a 3rd party will give this information to police and/or media if any harm comes to you or the client. Avoid lawsuits and complaints: Keep firm boundaries. Abstain from leading questions. Remember you may never know what really happened. Keep careful records Client states that Don t believe threats to you or your family. Perpetrator groups wants law enforcement to believe they don t exist.

38. Closedown Therapists A survivor who is remembering too much, and/or speaking up may be sent (by a family member or another survivor) to a therapist who is actually a closedown specialist working for the perpetrators. The closedown specialist systematically puts away significant inner people through torture, hand signals, and threats. The person ends up stable, managing life apparently okay (though depressed), but no longer remembering most of the abuse. The inside of a closed down person is full of prisons, wells, freezers, coffins, etc. in which internal people are hidden. The trauma is not resolved, and the internal people are still in pain.

39. Find a Safe Therapist Make sure your therapist is a safe person, not a closedown specialist, especially if he or she is a ritual abuse expert. Ask all your insiders. A na ve therapist who s willing to learn is better than an expert who works for the abusers. Do not choose someone recommended by an unhealed survivor or a family member.

40. Its Up To You Inner leaders, it s up to you. You don t have to be a slave to perpetrators or to enslave your own inner children. You can order programs to be turned off. You can order insiders to be loyal to your own true being instead of to the perpetrators. No therapist can do this work for you. You deserve a life that is your own.