Homelessness: A Call for Change in Perception and Attitudes

 
HOMELESS
HOMELESS
 
 
 
William Graham   2021
 
1
 
HOMELESSNESS
“OUR”  PERCEPTION
“OUR”   HANDICAP
 
View of Homeless People
Unwillingness to understand
Perception – Things – People – Events appear to us
What we see, hear, feel
Influenced by – experiences, culture, race, faith,
values, education, peer groups, upbringing and
context
 
William Graham   2021
 
2
 
WHO  ARE  THEY?
 
No Different
Victims of Circumstances
Our role as Persons of Faith and human
beings
Talk to Homeless
Ask them questions
What do they Need
What can we do to help
 
William Graham   2021
 
3
 
CHANGES IN PERCEPTION
 
Change through
maturing through educational experiences
spiritual experiences,
experiencing other cultures and ways of
living,
meeting, interacting and discussing
different cultures, habits and our biases.
 
William Graham   2021
 
4
 
CHANGE  PUBLIC  PERCEPTION
 
Sell this idea to:
public,
teachers,
students,
parents,
business owners
Meet Homeless people – Talk to them
Treat them as if they were your family.
 
William Graham   2021
 
5
 
MY PROPOSAL
 
A  CHANGE  IN  ATTITUDES
PUT A DECAL BESIDE THE BUSINESS DOOR.
Stores,
Service Station owners
Restaurant owners
Coffee shops
Truck Stops
Etc
 
Look at the Homeless person in a different Light
 
William Graham   2021
 
6
 
WHAT  ONTARIO  OFFERS
 
Great Facilities in  Many Communities
People
Programs
Plan
230,000 people homeless in Canada
 each year.  While
Peel region, including Brampton, Caledon and
Mississauga are better off than most places,
Homelessness is still a big problem and I know you all
realize this.
One Homeless Person Is One Too Many!
 
William Graham   2021
 
7
 
HOMELESS DEATHS
 
William Graham   2021
 
8
 
THE  ROAD  UPWARD
 
Take personal responsibility for the person
Work with the person for years
Help them back up each time
Enjoy the final result as they fly.
 
 
OUR  CHOICES
Ignore the individual
Be a part of the solution.
 
William Graham   2021
 
9
 
William Graham   2021
 
10
 
A  LIFETIME  SENTENCE
 
we should not tolerate this continual abuse of our
fellow man for no valid reason other than our own
selfishness and indifference.
 
BEING  HOMELESS  SHOULD  NOT  BE
A  LIFETIME  SENTENCE.
 
William Graham   2021
 
11
 
WHY  ARE  PEOPLE  HOMELESS?
WHY  ARE  WE  NOT  HOMELESS?
 
Perhaps because -
We are working or have adequate income.
We weren’t beaten down and driven to the street by
Abuse and Violence in the home or workplace.
Perhaps we aren’t homeless because we have good
physical health and are mentally stable.
We aren’t the victim of Alcohol or drugs or other
addictions and many of you realize that some
addictions are not that easy to walk away from.
Aren’t we fortunate to have stable lives and not be
homeless? Let us share our Good Fortune
 
William Graham   2021
 
12
 
NOT  A  CHOICE – MANY FACTORS
 
No secure income – contract work
Family violence – bullying – poor family
relationships
No secure accommodations
Physical and/or mental health issues
Unemployment or job loss
No support network
Drug and alcohol abuse and addiction
Not feeling safe at home
 
William Graham   2021
 
13
 
IMPEDIMENTS  TO  WORK
 
No Housing
Being Unemployed
No address
No Clothing
No Friends
No Family
Mental Illness
Alcohol and Drugs – Often caused by
Homelessness
 
William Graham   2021
 
14
 
CITIES  CAN’T  AFFORD  HOUSING
 
Supportive Housing Costs  $20,000.00 per year
Homeless person on street for hospital, Police Etc costs
can exceed  $100,000.00  per year.
 
Medicine Hat Alberta has about a 95% success rate.
Surely we can do the same.
 
William Graham   2021
 
15
 
THE  CRITERIA
 
WE, As Vincentians, must believe this.
 
Only Then Can We Sell This Concept To Others
 
Believe In Your Product
 
Believe In Those We Are Privileged To Serve.
 
William Graham   2021
 
16
 
WE  NEED  MORE
 
“Housing First”  
is the theme we hear
and we see some good things happening.
BUT  THAT  IS  NOT  ENOUGH
Housing
,
Adequate money to live
Someone who is committed to walk with the person,
Work with the person.
Develop a plan 
to get them on a firm footing and up the ladder from the spot
they are in. That person might be a committed Social worker or a committed
volunteer.
* I tell people that it is an exciting and beautiful world
out there but you need money to enjoy the benefits.
 
William Graham   2021
 
17
 
WE  NEED  A  PLAN
 
Outcome Star” As only
one Program
 
I Don’t Suggest A
Program. There are Others
In Peel And Other Places
With Knowledge And
Experience With These.
 
William Graham   2021
 
18
 
PLAN  SHOULD  INCLUDE
 
1)
Motivation and taking responsibility  for their
actions
2)  Self Care and Life Skills
3)  Managing Money
4)  Social Networks and Relationships
5)  Drug, Alcohol and other substance abuse
6)  Physical Health
7)  Emotional and Mental Health
8)  Meaningful use of time
9)  Managing tenancy and accommodations
10)Offending
 
 
William Graham   2021
 
19
 
THE  START
 
Change is never easy
Follow Up
Build Trust
A job is the answer
The barrier
Securing Food, Safe place to sleep
Securing belongings
Staying Healthy
 
William Graham   2021
 
20
 
CHANGING  OF  ASSUMPTIONS
 
We are asking that the homeless person be treated with
civility, such as:
- Talk to the person in a respectful tone.  Shake their hand.
- Advocate for the homeless – defend them.
- Don’t assume the person is bad, evil or dirty – You are probably wrong.    Most of our
worst crimes are committed by well dressed 
“respectable”
 people.
- Give the person a glass of water without charging, and more if you can.
- Let them use the shower at the truck stop without paying.
- Don’t call the police just because they are sitting on a public park bench.   Defend the
person in these situations.
- Offer them shelter and more if you can, especially in winter.
- Let the person use the public washroom – don’t keep it locked.
- Ask the person what they need, don’t tell them what they need.  Accept their wishes.
- Ask your local Police for support for this project.   They want to help.
- Never ask the person for proof or documentation of their situation.
- Have information on local support groups such as shelters, food banks etc.
- Give them, generously of your most valuable asset – your time.  Stop and talk to them.
-    - Don’t stand over the person, crouch down to their level.
       - 
Be willing to work with them, to walk with them to help them out
of their situation. Help them up when they fall with patience and
love.
 
 
William Graham   2021
 
21
 
EDUCATE  OUR  STUDENTS
CHANGE THEIR PERCEPTION
 
Educate our Conference Members, our Clergy,
Teachers and Students – Change their perception.
Look the person in the face and address them in a
friendly voice
Ask them how they are
Treat them as you would a family member
Crouch down to their level to talk to them
Don’t toss the sandwich to them
Don’t use the bread heel for the sandwich
DON’T  FAKE  IT -  THEY  KNOW  THE  DIFFERENCE
 
William Graham   2021
 
22
 
FOUR  NECESSARY  QUALITIES
 
I see four qualities, beliefs, attributes or whatever,
that we, as Vincentians must understand and must
have to serve our fellow man effectively:
LOVE:
 Have a love for our fellow man as a person, a
human being, an equal.
RESPECT:
  If we don’t respect the person’s needs we
cannot serve them.
JUSTICE:
 If we don’t understand that poverty is the
result of injustice, we cannot serve the person.
JOY:
  If we do not get joy from serving our fellow man,
we are in the wrong business.
 
William Graham   2021
 
23
 
THE  SITUATION
 
THE HOLE:
No Way Out
 
 
 
Your Help
 
 
 
 
William Graham   2021
 
24
 
YOUR  PATIENCE
 
The Challenge of Serving
Your Patience
When Will The Next Shoe Drop?
What Are Options?
ADVOCATE for Them
MOTEL
STORE OWNER
COMMUNITY COLLEGE
Shelter – Food – Meaningful Work - Mentor
 
William Graham   2021
 
25
 
THE  OPPORTUNITY
 
We know many great Vincentians that will seize
the opportunity.
People and Companies have Shone
Great Public Relations For Companies
Great Personal Satisfaction
We are privileged to have the opportunity to serve
our fellow man.
Are We Not All Born Equal? Let us not pass up this
Opportunity
 
William Graham   2021
 
26
 
INNOVATION  - STARTS  WITH  US
 
As a past New York mayor said.
“The streets are neither a bathroom or a
bedroom”, there is always room inside.”
Let us follow this example In Peel.
Be innovative. Look for ways to help.
How do we make this work?
Pray for help – It Works
How can  
“you”
  make this work?
 
William Graham   2021
 
27
 
SUPPORT  OF  BUSINESS
 
A  BOLD  MOVE
Talk to them.  
Will you take some personal
responsibility for the outcome.
OFFER  THE  PERSON  THE CHANCE  TO  HELP
THEIR  FELLOW MAN.
-
AND  FEEL  GOOD  DOING IT.
The change will show in the Homeless Population -
ATTITUDE, APPEARANCE  AND  ACTIONS
 
William Graham   2021
 
28
 
IT  CAN  WORK
 
Business will welcome this.
Will You Buy Into The Program?
Will You Talk To Business Owners
?
 
IF  IT  IS  TO  BE  -  LET  IT  BEGIN  WITH  ME
 
William Graham   2021
 
29
 
THE  FIRST  STEP
 
COMMIT  TO -  WORDS  
&
  ACTIONS
HAVE SOME HANDOUTS
WHO CAN YOU CONNECT THE PERSON WITH?
WILL YOU BE THE GO-BETWEEN – INTRODUCE THEM?
ASK THE PERSON TO JOIN YOU FOR COFFEE OR A MEAL.
PASS  THE  WORD  -  ASK  OTHERS FOR SUPPORT
ASK  FOR  IDEAS AND  SUGGESTIONS
OFFER  MORE  THAN  A  BAND  AID  -  HELP
THE  PERSON  CHANGE  THEIR  LIFE.
 
William Graham   2021
 
30
 
EDUCATION
 
Educators
Students
Parents
 
Support and promote this program
 
William Graham   2021
 
31
 
ACTS  OF  KINDNESS
 
I see the person in the donut shop give the homeless
person coffee and something to eat with no exchange of
money.  I see the person in the restaurant giving the
person a plate of food at the back door.  I wish they
would invite the person in, sit them down and treat them
like a guest. We see many people doing good now. I think
it just needs to be promoted more.  If you can do this,
please send me your mailing address and I will send you
decals. Thanks.
Need your thoughts, need your support, need your
suggestions.
 
William Graham   2021
 
32
 
OUR  EVOLUTION
Whats In It For You?
 
 
As you evolve from helping others and realize
you are a good person doing Our Father’s work
the dark spots in your life will disappear as you
put your trust in Our Father.
The day to day worries will become less and you
will enjoy what you are doing because you will
know you are making a difference in some
persons life.
 
William Graham   2021
 
33
 
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34
 
WHAT  TO  DO  NEXT
YOUR 
MISSION
 
Present this information on Homelessness to
your conference members
Present to other groups such as Knights of
Columbus. They will support you.
Talk to your Pastor.
Talk to any Youth  Leaders. Present to them.
Present to other organizations.
Present to your teachers.
ADVOCATE  to you Councillors, MPs, MLAs
 
William Graham   2021
 
35
 
THANK  YOU
 
QUESTIONS
 
William Graham   2021
 
36
Slide Note

GOOD DAY ---- Thank you for allowing me the time to address you on a matter that we know is important to all of you – Homelessness.

Today, I am suggesting that we change our attitude and view of homelessness and that we find a way to sell this to our conference members, our pastors and our teachers and students. the public, the taxpayers, all who are affected by homelessness.

My suggested solutions are not about money. They are about saving money and helping people.

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  1. HOMELESS William Graham 2021 1

  2. HOMELESSNESS OUR PERCEPTION OUR HANDICAP View of Homeless People Unwillingness to understand Perception Things People Events appear to us What we see, hear, feel Influenced by experiences, culture, race, faith, values, education, peer groups, upbringing and context William Graham 2021 2

  3. WHO ARE THEY? No Different Victims of Circumstances Our role as Persons of Faith and human beings Talk to Homeless Ask them questions What do they Need What can we do to help William Graham 2021 3

  4. CHANGES IN PERCEPTION Change through maturing through educational experiences spiritual experiences, experiencing other cultures and ways of living, meeting, interacting and discussing different cultures, habits and our biases. William Graham 2021 4

  5. CHANGE PUBLIC PERCEPTION Sell this idea to: public, teachers, students, parents, business owners Meet Homeless people Talk to them Treat them as if they were your family. William Graham 2021 5

  6. MY PROPOSAL A CHANGE IN ATTITUDES PUT A DECAL BESIDE THE BUSINESS DOOR. Stores, Service Station owners Restaurant owners Coffee shops Truck Stops Etc Look at the Homeless person in a different Light William Graham 2021 6

  7. WHAT ONTARIO OFFERS Great Facilities in Many Communities People Programs Plan 230,000 people homeless in Canada each year. While Peel region, including Brampton, Caledon and Mississauga are better off than most places, Homelessness is still a big problem and I know you all realize this. One Homeless Person Is One Too Many! William Graham 2021 7

  8. HOMELESS DEATHS William Graham 2021 8

  9. THE ROAD UPWARD Take personal responsibility for the person Work with the person for years Help them back up each time Enjoy the final result as they fly. Ignore the individual Be a part of the solution. OUR CHOICES William Graham 2021 9

  10. William Graham 2021 10

  11. A LIFETIME SENTENCE we should not tolerate this continual abuse of our fellow man for no valid reason other than our own selfishness and indifference. BEING HOMELESS SHOULD NOT BE A LIFETIME SENTENCE. William Graham 2021 11

  12. WHY ARE PEOPLE HOMELESS? WHY ARE WE NOT HOMELESS? Perhaps because - We are working or have adequate income. We weren t beaten down and driven to the street by Abuse and Violence in the home or workplace. Perhaps we aren t homeless because we have good physical health and are mentally stable. We aren t the victim of Alcohol or drugs or other addictions and many of you realize that some addictions are not that easy to walk away from. Aren t we fortunate to have stable lives and not be homeless? Let us share our Good Fortune William Graham 2021 12

  13. NOT A CHOICE MANY FACTORS No secure income contract work Family violence bullying poor family relationships No secure accommodations Physical and/or mental health issues Unemployment or job loss No support network Drug and alcohol abuse and addiction Not feeling safe at home William Graham 2021 13

  14. IMPEDIMENTS TO WORK No Housing Being Unemployed No address No Clothing No Friends No Family Mental Illness Alcohol and Drugs Often caused by Homelessness William Graham 2021 14

  15. CITIES CANT AFFORD HOUSING Supportive Housing Costs $20,000.00 per year Homeless person on street for hospital, Police Etc costs can exceed $100,000.00 per year. Medicine Hat Alberta has about a 95% success rate. Surely we can do the same. William Graham 2021 15

  16. THE CRITERIA WE, As Vincentians, must believe this. Only Then Can We Sell This Concept To Others Believe In Your Product Believe In Those We Are Privileged To Serve. William Graham 2021 16

  17. WE NEED MORE Housing First is the theme we hear and we see some good things happening. BUT THAT IS NOT ENOUGH Housing, Adequate money to live Someone who is committed to walk with the person, Work with the person. Develop a plan to get them on a firm footing and up the ladder from the spot they are in. That person might be a committed Social worker or a committed volunteer. * I tell people that it is an exciting and beautiful world out there but you need money to enjoy the benefits. William Graham 2021 17

  18. WE NEED A PLAN Outcome Star As only one Program I Don t Suggest A Program. There are Others In Peel And Other Places With Knowledge And Experience With These. William Graham 2021 18

  19. PLAN SHOULD INCLUDE 1) Motivation and taking responsibility for their actions 2) Self Care and Life Skills 3) Managing Money 4) Social Networks and Relationships 5) Drug, Alcohol and other substance abuse 6) Physical Health 7) Emotional and Mental Health 8) Meaningful use of time 9) Managing tenancy and accommodations 10)Offending William Graham 2021 19

  20. THE START Change is never easy Follow Up Build Trust A job is the answer The barrier Securing Food, Safe place to sleep Securing belongings Staying Healthy William Graham 2021 20

  21. CHANGING OF ASSUMPTIONS We are asking that the homeless person be treated with civility, such as: - Talk to the person in a respectful tone. Shake their hand. - Advocate for the homeless defend them. - Don t assume the person is bad, evil or dirty You are probably wrong. Most of our worst crimes are committed by well dressed respectable people. - Give the person a glass of water without charging, and more if you can. - Let them use the shower at the truck stop without paying. - Don t call the police just because they are sitting on a public park bench. Defend the person in these situations. - Offer them shelter and more if you can, especially in winter. - Let the person use the public washroom don t keep it locked. - Ask the person what they need, don t tell them what they need. Accept their wishes. - Ask your local Police for support for this project. They want to help. - Never ask the person for proof or documentation of their situation. - Have information on local support groups such as shelters, food banks etc. - Give them, generously of your most valuable asset your time. Stop and talk to them. - - Don t stand over the person, crouch down to their level. - Be willing to work with them, to walk with them to help them out of their situation. Help them up when they fall with patience and love. William Graham 2021 21

  22. EDUCATE OUR STUDENTS CHANGE THEIR PERCEPTION Educate our Conference Members, our Clergy, Teachers and Students Change their perception. Look the person in the face and address them in a friendly voice Ask them how they are Treat them as you would a family member Crouch down to their level to talk to them Don t toss the sandwich to them Don t use the bread heel for the sandwich DON T FAKE IT - THEY KNOW THE DIFFERENCE William Graham 2021 22

  23. FOUR NECESSARY QUALITIES I see four qualities, beliefs, attributes or whatever, that we, as Vincentians must understand and must have to serve our fellow man effectively: LOVE: Have a love for our fellow man as a person, a human being, an equal. RESPECT:If we don t respect the person s needs we cannot serve them. JUSTICE:If we don t understand that poverty is the result of injustice, we cannot serve the person. JOY: If we do not get joy from serving our fellow man, we are in the wrong business. William Graham 2021 23

  24. THE SITUATION THE HOLE: No Way Out Your Help William Graham 2021 24

  25. YOUR PATIENCE The Challenge of Serving Your Patience When Will The Next Shoe Drop? What Are Options? ADVOCATE for Them MOTEL STORE OWNER COMMUNITY COLLEGE Shelter Food Meaningful Work - Mentor William Graham 2021 25

  26. THE OPPORTUNITY We know many great Vincentians that will seize the opportunity. People and Companies have Shone Great Public Relations For Companies Great Personal Satisfaction We are privileged to have the opportunity to serve our fellow man. Are We Not All Born Equal? Let us not pass up this Opportunity William Graham 2021 26

  27. INNOVATION - STARTS WITH US As a past New York mayor said. The streets are neither a bathroom or a bedroom , there is always room inside. Let us follow this example In Peel. Be innovative. Look for ways to help. How do we make this work? Pray for help It Works How can you make this work? William Graham 2021 27

  28. SUPPORT OF BUSINESS A BOLD MOVE Talk to them. Will you take some personal responsibility for the outcome. OFFER THE PERSON THE CHANCE TO HELP THEIR FELLOW MAN. - AND FEEL GOOD DOING IT. The change will show in the Homeless Population - ATTITUDE, APPEARANCE AND ACTIONS William Graham 2021 28

  29. IT CAN WORK Business will welcome this. Will You Buy Into The Program? Will You Talk To Business Owners? IF IT IS TO BE - LET IT BEGIN WITH ME William Graham 2021 29

  30. THE FIRST STEP COMMIT TO - WORDS & ACTIONS HAVE SOME HANDOUTS WHO CAN YOU CONNECT THE PERSON WITH? WILL YOU BE THE GO-BETWEEN INTRODUCE THEM? ASK THE PERSON TO JOIN YOU FOR COFFEE OR A MEAL. PASS THE WORD - ASK OTHERS FOR SUPPORT ASK FOR IDEAS AND SUGGESTIONS OFFER MORE THAN A BAND AID - HELP THE PERSON CHANGE THEIR LIFE. William Graham 2021 30

  31. EDUCATION Educators Students Parents Support and promote this program William Graham 2021 31

  32. ACTS OF KINDNESS I see the person in the donut shop give the homeless person coffee and something to eat with no exchange of money. I see the person in the restaurant giving the person a plate of food at the back door. I wish they would invite the person in, sit them down and treat them like a guest. We see many people doing good now. I think it just needs to be promoted more. If you can do this, please send me your mailing address and I will send you decals. Thanks. Need your thoughts, need your support, need your suggestions. William Graham 2021 32

  33. OUR EVOLUTION Whats In It For You? As you evolve from helping others and realize you are a good person doing Our Father s work the dark spots in your life will disappear as you put your trust in Our Father. The day to day worries will become less and you will enjoy what you are doing because you will know you are making a difference in some persons life. William Graham 2021 33

  34. OUR JOURNEY Vincentians are called to journey together towards holiness, because true holiness is perfect union with Christ and the perfection of love. Vincentians seek His glory, not their own, to relieve suffering for love alone, without thinking of any reward or advantage for themselves. They draw nearer to Christ serving him in the poor and one another. Vincentians will gain PEACE OF HEART God s most valuable gift to us and the hardest to attain. Just by putting our trust in Our Father. William Graham 2021 34

  35. WHAT TO DO NEXT YOUR MISSION Present this information on Homelessness to your conference members Present to other groups such as Knights of Columbus. They will support you. Talk to your Pastor. Talk to any Youth Leaders. Present to them. Present to other organizations. Present to your teachers. ADVOCATE to you Councillors, MPs, MLAs William Graham 2021 35

  36. THANK YOU QUESTIONS William Graham 2021 36

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