Recognizing Healthy vs Abusive Romantic Relationships
WELLBEING
ROMANTIC
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BEHAVIOURS
INTRODUCTION
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Recognise qualities which we should look for in
healthy relationships
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Recognise positive and negative behaviours within
relationships
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Understand a range of strategies to deal with
harmful behaviours
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Understand where to go for support
BEFORE WE START
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Remember, if you are affected by anything in today’s session you can leave the room or
take a moment out if you need to. Please speak to a member of staff and remember there
are lots of places to go for help and support.
GROUP AGREEMENT
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Ask questions (nothing personal)
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HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
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SIGNS OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
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How would we spot the signs of
harmful behaviours, which
means it’s an abusive
relationship?
What’s the difference between an
unhealthy relationship and an
abusive relationship?
ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS
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There often isn’t a clear line when a
relationship moves from being ‘unhealthy’
to being ‘abusive’.
However, if it begins to form a consistent
pattern where one partner is attempting to
exert power and control over the other, this
is indicative of abuse.
SCENARIO
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Listen to the following scenario, which is a true story:
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What are some of the warning signs of abuse?
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What are some of the strategies the family use to support?
WHAT TO DO
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Feeling threatened or scared in a relationship is not OK.
Abuse is always wrong, and never the fault of the
person who is being abused.
It's important to tell someone and remember you're not
alone.
Please speak to an adult you trust, there are also lots of
organisations who can help.
SELF-REFLECTION
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What healthy behaviours do I
wish to show in my relationships?
What unhealthy or harmful
behaviours do I want to avoid in
my relationships?
SUMMARY
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Abuse in a relationship can affect anyone. It is
always wrong and never the fault of the person
being abused.
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Everyone deserves to be respected, feel safe
and be cared for in their relationships.
SUMMARY
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You should never feel scared, threatened,
bullied or controlled in a relationship.
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If you or someone you know faces an abusive
situation, you should seek help and advice.
WHERE TO GO FOR SUPPORT
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WELLBEING ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS AND HARMFUL BEHAVIOURS
INTRODUCTION Recognise qualities which we should look for in healthy relationships Recognise positive and negative behaviours within relationships Understand a range of strategies to deal with harmful behaviours Understand where to go for support Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 2
BEFORE WE START Some of us in the room may have experience of unhealthy or abusive relationships. Abuse in a relationship can affect anyone. It is always wrong and never the fault of the person being abused. Remember, if you are affected by anything in today s session you can leave the room or take a moment out if you need to. Please speak to a member of staff and remember there are lots of places to go for help and support. Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 3
GROUP AGREEMENT Non- judgemental and open Respectful Safe Take part Ask questions (nothing personal) Confidential Language Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 4
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS We always deserve to be treated with respect in relationships that are free from pressure or violence. Everyone should feel safe and cared for. Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 5
SIGNS OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP How would we spot the signs of harmful behaviours, which means it s an abusive relationship? What s the difference between an unhealthy relationship and an abusive relationship? Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 6
ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS There often isn t a clear line when a relationship moves from being unhealthy to being abusive . However, if it begins to form a consistent pattern where one partner is attempting to exert power and control over the other, this is indicative of abuse. Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 7
SCENARIO Listen to the following scenario, which is a true story: What are some of the warning signs of abuse? What are some of the strategies the family use to support? Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 8
WHAT TO DO Feeling threatened or scared in a relationship is not OK. Abuse is always wrong, and never the fault of the person who is being abused. It's important to tell someone and remember you're not alone. Please speak to an adult you trust, there are also lots of organisations who can help. Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 9
SELF-REFLECTION What unhealthy or harmful behaviours do I want to avoid in my relationships? What healthy behaviours do I wish to show in my relationships? Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 10
SUMMARY Abuse in a relationship can affect anyone. It is always wrong and never the fault of the person being abused. Everyone deserves to be respected, feel safe and be cared for in their relationships. Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 11
SUMMARY You should never feel scared, threatened, bullied or controlled in a relationship. If you or someone you know faces an abusive situation, you should seek help and advice. Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 12
WHERE TO GO FOR SUPPORT In an emergency call 999 An adult you trust at home or school Brook - https://www.brook.org.uk/your-life/abuse-getting-help Childline - 0800 1111 https://www.childline.org.uk/get-support/contacting-childline/ Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 13
WHERE TO GO FOR SUPPORT Refuge - National Domestic Violence Hotline 24/7 0808 2000 247 (also online chat service) Respect - Helpline for male victims of domestic abuse 0808 8010 327 (also online chat service) Galop - 0800 999 5428 (national helpline for LGBT+ people experiencing domestic abuse) Romantic relationships and harmful behaviours | 14
