Insights into Mentor-Student Perceptions in Academia

Grad students  vs. Mentors
developed by R. Craft, based on student & faculty input
Psychology Department
Washington State University
+ material adapted from Fisher and Ury, 
Getting to Yes
 (1991)
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor keeps asking me
to do more and more; s/he
must think I have nothing
else to do but eat and sleep
research.
 
This student keeps taking on
more and more; s/he is so
motivated and enthusiastic,
s/he’s really got what it takes
to be a successful researcher.
OR:
I need to get the best/most
performance that I can from
this student; I just can’t get to
everything myself.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor never lets me
choose what I want to work
on; s/he doesn’t seem to think
my ideas are valid.
 
I have to keep this student
focused on a single line of
inquiry or s/he’ll fall behind
in the program (and we’ll
both look bad).
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
I'm afraid that any sign of
weakness will be evaluated
negatively by my mentor.  I
need to portray that I am
handling everything well.
 
My student is making
mistakes but not owning up
to them.  S/he must be
defensive (or clueless, or
irresponsible).
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor is always
criticizing my work.  S/he
must
 
 think I’m really stupid.
 
I need to make sure I’m
consistently offering feed-
back to my student so that
s/he can improve her/his
performance as expediently as
possible.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
I never get any useful
feedback from my mentor;
s/he
 
always says I’m doing
fine.  How can I improve if I
can’t see what I’m doing
wrong?
 
I’m afraid to criticize my
student too much; s/he may
get frustrated if s/he sees me
as too “picky.”
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
I have worked hard to gain
admission here, plus paid a
lot of money and risked a
personal relationship to be
here; this program owes me
the best training possible.
 
I have trained for many years
to earn my qualifications, and
my student needs to listen
and learn from me in order to
gain admission into the
profession.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor doesn’t give me
enough guidance.
 
Graduate training is about
developing a sense of
independence.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor always seems to
change her/his mind on every
draft of this paper – I wish
s/he would just make up
her/his mind so I didn’t have
to keep making all these
revisions.
 
Drafting a good paper is a
PROCESS – it’s important to
try several possible ways of
presenting and interpreting
data, so that ultimately one
arrives at the best product.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
It seems like all my peers are
getting a lot more/better
____________ (fill in the
blank) than I am.  It’s really
unfair that other students are
getting all the
breaks/support/funding
(etc.).
 
It’s really important that I
train my students the best
way I know how. It’s up to me
to make sure my student
leaves WSU well-prepared for
their
 
 career.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor gives me too
much stuff to read – there’s
no way anyone could digest
all this in such a short period
of time.
 
I need to make sure I direct
my student to all of the
pertinent literature in this
area so that s/he can gain
competence and knowledge.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor is not very
friendly to me.  Perhaps s/he
doesn’t like me, or is a cold
person.
 
My student seems overly
friendly to me.  The mentor-
student relationship is about
work, not play.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor seems overly
friendly to me; this is making
me nervous because I will be
evaluated by her/him.
 
My student is not very
friendly to me; perhaps s/he
doesn’t like me, or is a cold
person.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
My mentor never asks me
how things are going; s/he
must not care about my
progress (or is too busy to
make time for me).
 
My student never brings up
any concerns to me;
everything must be going
fine.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
In comparison to my 
peers
, I
think I’m doing fine
 
in the
program.
 
When I compare my student’s
performance to 
mine 
when I
was a graduate student, s/he
is falling short.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
I really need to take breaks in
between tasks, in order to
refocus/rejuvenate for the
next task.
 
It seems like every time I walk
into the lab, my student is
playing a computer
game/texting a friend; s/he
must not be getting anything
done.
Grad Student Perception
Grad Student Perception
Mentor Perception
Mentor Perception
 
I’m having a lot of personal
issues that are impeding my
progress in my program; I’d
talk to my mentor but s/he
seems really unreceptive to
discussing anything
 
personal.
I heard that s/he once told
another student  to “go see a
therapist” if they were having
problems.
 
My student seems to be struggling but I
don’t want to seem like I’m prying, so I’ll
just wait until s/he talks to me.
  
OR
 
I can’t risk getting involved in anything
personal, because it’s my job to evaluate
this person.  It’s better to recommend that a
student with problems seek therapy instead
of talking to me.
  
OR
 
My student seems to be struggling, which
scares me because I’m afraid I won’t be able
to help, so I’ll just ignore it and hope s/he
gets help from someone else.
  
OR
 
Personal issues?  I just thought s/he was
lazy and unfocused 
(i.e., mentor completely
misinterprets student’s struggles).
How do I keep my relationship with
my advisor on track?
 
Ask for feedback 
– at least once/semester
 
Be proactive
:  keep your advisor informed of what
you’re doing (be visible: don’t “disappear”)
 
Separate the problem from the person: 
avoid finger-
pointing!  
(“I’m having difficulty meeting this schedule”
rather than: “You have unreasonable expectations”)
 
Get on the same side of the table
: 
“I would really like to
make better progress on my project, so I can continue to
move through the program efficiently.  Can you help me get
past 
X
 roadblock?”
 
 
 
GOOD LUCK!
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Explore the nuanced perceptions and expectations between mentors and graduate students in academia, shedding light on common challenges faced by both parties. The images and descriptions provide a glimpse into the dynamics of mentorship relationships, highlighting the need for effective communication and mutual understanding for successful academic development.

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  • Academic Development
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  1. Grad students vs. Mentors developed by R. Craft, based on student & faculty input Psychology Department Washington State University + material adapted from Fisher and Ury, Getting to Yes (1991)

  2. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor keeps asking me to do more and more; s/he must think I have nothing else to do but eat and sleep research. This student keeps taking on more and more; s/he is so motivated and enthusiastic, s/he s really got what it takes to be a successful researcher. OR: I need to get the best/most performance that I can from this student; I just can t get to everything myself.

  3. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor never lets me choose what I want to work on; s/he doesn t seem to think my ideas are valid. I have to keep this student focused on a single line of inquiry or s/he ll fall behind in the program (and we ll both look bad).

  4. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception I'm afraid that any sign of weakness will be evaluated negatively by my mentor. I need to portray that I am handling everything well. My student is making mistakes but not owning up to them. S/he must be defensive (or clueless, or irresponsible).

  5. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor is always criticizing my work. S/he must think I m really stupid. I need to make sure I m consistently offering feed- back to my student so that s/he can improve her/his performance as expediently as possible.

  6. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception I never get any useful feedback from my mentor; s/he always says I m doing fine. How can I improve if I can t see what I m doing wrong? I m afraid to criticize my student too much; s/he may get frustrated if s/he sees me as too picky.

  7. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception I have worked hard to gain admission here, plus paid a lot of money and risked a personal relationship to be here; this program owes me the best training possible. I have trained for many years to earn my qualifications, and my student needs to listen and learn from me in order to gain admission into the profession.

  8. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor doesn t give me enough guidance. Graduate training is about developing a sense of independence.

  9. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor always seems to change her/his mind on every draft of this paper I wish s/he would just make up her/his mind so I didn t have to keep making all these revisions. Drafting a good paper is a PROCESS it s important to try several possible ways of presenting and interpreting data, so that ultimately one arrives at the best product.

  10. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception It seems like all my peers are getting a lot more/better ____________ (fill in the blank) than I am. It s really unfair that other students are getting all the breaks/support/funding (etc.). It s really important that I train my students the best way I know how. It s up to me to make sure my student leaves WSU well-prepared for their career.

  11. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor gives me too much stuff to read there s no way anyone could digest all this in such a short period of time. I need to make sure I direct my student to all of the pertinent literature in this area so that s/he can gain competence and knowledge.

  12. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor is not very friendly to me. Perhaps s/he doesn t like me, or is a cold person. My student seems overly friendly to me. The mentor- student relationship is about work, not play.

  13. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor seems overly friendly to me; this is making me nervous because I will be evaluated by her/him. My student is not very friendly to me; perhaps s/he doesn t like me, or is a cold person.

  14. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My mentor never asks me how things are going; s/he must not care about my progress (or is too busy to make time for me). My student never brings up any concerns to me; everything must be going fine.

  15. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception In comparison to my peers, I think I m doing fine in the program. When I compare my student s performance to mine when I was a graduate student, s/he is falling short.

  16. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception I really need to take breaks in between tasks, in order to refocus/rejuvenate for the next task. It seems like every time I walk into the lab, my student is playing a computer game/texting a friend; s/he must not be getting anything done.

  17. Mentor Perception Grad Student Perception My student seems to be struggling but I don t want to seem like I m prying, so I ll just wait until s/he talks to me. OR I can t risk getting involved in anything personal, because it s my job to evaluate this person. It s better to recommend that a student with problems seek therapy instead of talking to me. OR My student seems to be struggling, which scares me because I m afraid I won t be able to help, so I ll just ignore it and hope s/he gets help from someone else. OR Personal issues? I just thought s/he was lazy and unfocused (i.e., mentor completely misinterprets student s struggles). I m having a lot of personal issues that are impeding my progress in my program; I d talk to my mentor but s/he seems really unreceptive to discussing anything personal. I heard that s/he once told another student to go see a therapist if they were having problems.

  18. How do I keep my relationship with my advisor on track? Ask for feedback at least once/semester Be proactive: keep your advisor informed of what you re doing (be visible: don t disappear ) Separate the problem from the person: avoid finger- pointing! ( I m having difficulty meeting this schedule rather than: You have unreasonable expectations ) Get on the same side of the table: I would really like to make better progress on my project, so I can continue to move through the program efficiently. Can you help me get past X roadblock?

  19. GOOD LUCK!

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