Defeat Thinking Errors and Improve Mental Well-being
The content discusses how thinking errors can lead to negative outcomes like depression, panic attacks, divorce, and more. It provides solutions to combat these errors such as asking truth-seeking questions, avoiding overgeneralization, and challenging emotional reasoning. Additionally, it suggests using a cost-benefit analysis to change beliefs and behaviors. By addressing these errors and implementing effective strategies, individuals can enhance their mental health and decision-making processes.
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Thinking Errors Cause.. Depression Panic Attacks Divorce Suicide Drop out students Failure And Much More
Defeat Thinking Errors Arbitrary Inference Solution Ask the truth questions, Is the info. I have based on fact? Are there cases when these statements aren t true? Is the conclusion based on any of the Self-defeating Beliefs in the handout. For example, People won t accept me if I m flawed. Conclusions made in the absence of supporting evidence. Examples: If you don t like Obama s health care program, you re a racist. If you weren t for the Iraq war, you re not a patriot. If you didn t vote against prop. 8, you re a homophobe. If you don t join our religion, you re going to hell.
Defeat Thinking Errors Selective Abstraction Solution Information is taken out of context; certain details are highlighted while other important info. is ignored. For example, A woman whose husband fails to answer her greeting the first thing in the morning concludes, he must be angry at me again. Ask, What s the evidence for this claim? Do a survey to test your negative thought. For example, if you think that your shyness is weird, you could ask several friends if they ve ever felt shy. You ll find most people feel shy at times. Is the conclusion based on any of the Self-defeating Beliefs in the handout.
Defeat Thinking Errors Overgeneralization Solution An isolated incident or two is allowed to represent similar situations everywhere, related or unrelated. For example, after being turned down for an initial date, a young man concludes, All women are alike; I ll always be rejected. Ask, Is this thought based on fact? Can it be proven? Substitute language that s less insulting and emotionally loaded such as sometimes and occasionally instead of never and always. Is the conclusion based on any of the Self-defeating Beliefs in the handout.
Defeat Thinking Errors Emotional Reasoning You believe that what you feel must be true automatically. For example, if you feel stupid and boring, then you must be stupid and boring. Or, I feel fat, so I am fat. Or, I feel attacked, so they must have attacked me. Or I feel like a loser so I must be. Or, I feel anxious, so I must be in danger. Solution Ask, Is this thought based on fact? Can it be proven? Substitute language that s less insulting and emotionally loaded such as sometimes and occasionally instead of never and always. Is the conclusion based on any of the Self-defeating Beliefs in the handout.
Use a Cost-Benefit Analysis to Change a Belief/Behavior Disadvantages of Overeating I ll be unhealthy I ll be unattractive I won t have much energy I ll feel bad about myself Advantages of Overeating Food is pleasurable and an immediate reward. I can feel sorry for myself because I m fat I can resent those who look down on people like me Exercise requires lots of effort I can avoid the real problem by distracting myself by eating.
Use a Cost-Benefit Analysis to Change a Belief/Behavior Disadvantages of Procrastination I never get anything done. I won t feel good about myself. I ll never accomplish any of my goals Advantages of Procrastination I can do something else that s more enjoyable It would be unpleasant to get started. What ever I do will only be a drop in the bucket anyway. I can get back at the person who s nagging me to do the things I ve been putting off. I can have a good excuse for failing by telling myself I didn t really try.
Being Overly Nice = Anxiety Pleasing Others, Conflict Phobia, and Anger Phobia You feel you have to please everyone at the expense of your own feelings. You think you should always feel happy and optimistic about your life, your work, and other people. You believe you should always be in control of the way you feel and never allow yourself to feel anxious, vulnerable, lonely, jealous, annoyed, or inadequate. Emotional Perfectionism Emotophobia
Confront your Thinking Errors Now Write down any thinking errors you may have about: Yourself Others friend, spouse, relative, boss, boy/girl friend An Event Life Test the evidence using the truth questions and the self-defeating beliefs.