Bar/Bat Mitzvah: A Jewish Coming-of-Age Tradition
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I love Elisheva’s theme, taken
from the name of the weekly
portion,
מִקֵּץ
Miketz
: “
At the end
of
two years, Pharaoh had a dream:
…”
Life has its endpoints,
transformation points.
Bar/Bat Mitzvah is such
TORAHFIED
TORAHFIED n. Inability to
remember one's lines at one's Bar
or Bat Mitzvah.
1.
What is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah?
2.
Why have a Bat Mitzvah
1.
What is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah?
2.
Why have a Bat Mitzvah
Bar mitzvah m.
מִצְוָה
בַּר
son of the
commandment
Bat mitzvah f.
מִצְוָה
בַּת
daughter
of the commandment
is a coming-of-age ritual in
Judaism.
According to Jewish law, before
children reach a certain age, the
parents are responsible for their
child's actions.
בָּ
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פְּ
טָ
רַ
נִ
י
מֵ
עָ
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שׁ
וֹ
שֶׁ
לָ
זֶ
ה
.
Ba-rukh sheh-p'ta-ra-nee
may-an-sho sheh-lah-zeh.
Blessed is He Who has released
me from the punishment
for this one.
In modern American Jewish
practice Bar Mitzvah and Bat
Mitzvah age 13. Sometimes age
12 for Bat Mitzvah.
My Aunt
Betty Levine,
Bat Mitzvah
in the Bronx,
NY at age 80!
The Bible does not explicitly
specify the age of 13.
•
Shmot/Ex 30.14
Everyone
over 20 yrs
of age who is subject to the
census is to give this offering to
Adoni
•
Ber/Gen 37:2
When Yosef
was 17
years old
… still a boy.
The Mishnah [~200 CE] “At five
years old one should study the
Scriptures, at ten years for the
Mishnah, at 13 for the
commandments...”
Judah ben Tema
[~200 CE]
said:
At 5 years of age the study of
Scripture; At 10 the study of
Mishnah;
a
t 13 subject to the
commandments
; At 15 the study
of Talmud; At 18 the bridal
canopy; At 20 for pursuit [of
livelihood]; At 30 the peak of
strength;
Judah ben Tema
[~200 CE]
said:
At 40 wisdom; At 50 able to give
counsel; At 60 old age; At 70
fullness of years; At 80 the age of
“strength”; At 90 a bent body; At
100, as good as dead and gone
completely out of the world.
Genesis Rabbah 63:10 on Gen 25:27 Written 300-
500 CE
“Up to 13 years Esau and
Jacob went together to the
primary school and back home;
after the thirteen years were over,
the one went to the beit midrash
to study Law, the other to the
house of idols.
Genesis Rabbah 63:10 Written 300-500 CE
“
It is a mitzvah for a person to
make a meal on the day his son
becomes Bar Mitzvah as on the
day he enters the wedding
canopy.”
Pirke Rabbi Eli'ezer 26
[700-800]
Abraham rejected the total
idolatry of his father and became
a worshiper of God when he was
thirteen years old.
About 800 CE
Masseket Soferim
(18:5)
“In Jerusalem they are
accustomed to initiate their
children to fast on the Day of
Atonement, a year or two before
their maturity; and then, when the
age has arrived,
to bring the Bar
Mitzvah before the priest or elder
for blessing.
How did Yeshua the Messiah fit
into this pattern?
Luke 2. 41-47
Every year Yeshua's
parents went to Yerushalayim for
the festival of Pesakh.
When he
was twelve years old, they went
up for the festival
,
as custom
required
.
Luke 2. 41-47
But after the festival
was over, when his parents
returned, Yeshua remained in
Yerushalayim...they spent a
whole day on the road before
they began searching…
Luke 2. 41-47
They returned to
Yerushalayim to look for him. On
the third day they found him -- he
was sitting in the Temple court
among the rabbis,
Luke 2. 41-47
not only listening to
them but questioning what they
said; and everyone who heard
him was astonished at his insight
and his responses…
1.
What is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah?
2.
Why have a Bat Mitzvah
בָּ
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,
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Dt. 28.6
“A blessing on you when
you go out, and a blessing on you
when you come in.”
God meets us at transition points
God meets us at transition points
•
Birth: Brit Milah/circumcision
•
Puberty: entering adulthood
•
Marriage
•
Death
•
Bar/Bat Mitzvah is the expression
of maturity
•
The essence of maturity in
Messiah is sacrificial love.
•
Bar/Bat Mitzvah can be a stated
entrance into Messiah’s
sacrificial love.
Bat Mitzvah by a non-Jewish
person is expressing love for the
Jewish Messiah and King,
Universal Messiah and King, in a
manner that Jewish people can
relate to.
Ber./Gen 4.9
Adoni
said to Cain,
“Where is Abel, your brother?”
“I don’t know,” he said.
“Am I my brother’s keeper?”
Gal 5.13-15
For, brothers, you were
called to be free [mature,
empowered]. Only do not let that
freedom become an excuse for
allowing your old nature to have
its way. Instead,
serve one
another in love
. For the whole of
the Torah is summed up in this
one sentence:
Gal 5.13-15
“Love your neighbor as
yourself”; but if you go on
snapping at each other and
tearing each other to pieces,
watch out, or you will be
destroyed by each other!
1 Yn 3.16
The way that we have come
to know love is through Yeshua
the Messiah having laid down his
life for us. And we ought to lay
down our lives for the brothers
and sisters!
In the parasha story, the brothers
had betrayed and sold Yosef into
slavery. Now their enslaved
brother was [unbeknownst to
them] their absolute master.
They didn’t recognize him, similar
to how the Jewish people don’t
recognize, Yeshua, because
Yosef looked so foreign.
He was their promised redeemer
He was their promised redeemer
•
He looked Egyptian.
He was their promised redeemer
•
He looked Egyptian.
•
He dressed Egyptian.
He was their promised redeemer
•
He looked Egyptian.
•
He dressed Egyptian.
•
He spoke Egyptian.
He was their promised redeemer
•
He looked Egyptian.
•
He dressed Egyptian.
•
He spoke Egyptian.
•
He ate food ~Egyptian.
He was their promised redeemer
•
He looked Egyptian.
•
He dressed Egyptian.
•
He spoke Egyptian.
•
He ate food ~Egyptian.
•
He was an enemy foreigner.
•
He was their brother!
Statement by Yehuda of
sacrificial love…
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”
Yehuda offered himself in place
of Benjamin.
Sacrificial love compared to the
jealous betrayal [contemplated
murder, sale into slavery] of
Yosef years previous.
The brothers could now see that
Yosef was their prophesied ruler
and their flesh and blood.
The Jewish people will eventually
see that Yeshua is their
prophesied Messiah, and their
own flesh and blood.
Beresheet/Gen 45.3
Yosef said to his
brothers, “
I am Yosef! Is it true that
my father is still alive
?” His brothers
couldn’t answer him, they were so
panicked at seeing him.
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.
Zekh 12.9-10
“When that day comes, I
will seek to destroy all nations
attacking Yerushalayim; and I will
pour out on the house of David and
on those living in Yerushalayim a
spirit of grace and prayer; and
they
will look to me, whom they pierced.”
They will mourn for him as one
mourns for an only son;
Elisheva has expressed the love
of Messiah in a context that
shows being grafted into the
Jewish people.
1.
Do you KNOW Yeshua the Messiah
and King?
2.
Are you hearing daily from His
Word?
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Bringing my Brother
Dec. 24.2022
Explore the significance of Bar/Bat Mitzvah in Judaism, from its ritualistic nature to the age of responsibility. Discover how this milestone marks a transition to adulthood and learn about unique ceremonies like celebrating at age 80.
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I love Elishevas theme, taken from the name of the weekly portion, Miketz: At the end of two years, Pharaoh had a dream: Life has its endpoints, transformation points. Bar/Bat Mitzvah is such
TORAHFIED n. Inability to remember one's lines at one's Bar or Bat Mitzvah.
1.What is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah? 2.Why have a Bat Mitzvah
1.What is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah? 2.Why have a Bat Mitzvah
Bar mitzvah m. son of the commandment Bat mitzvah f. daughter of the commandment is a coming-of-age ritual in Judaism.
According to Jewish law, before children reach a certain age, the parents are responsible for their child's actions.
Ba-rukh sheh-p'ta-ra-nee may-an-sho sheh-lah-zeh. Blessed is He Who has released me from the punishment for this one. .
In modern American Jewish practice Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah age 13. Sometimes age 12 for Bat Mitzvah.
My Aunt Betty Levine, Bat Mitzvah in the Bronx, NY at age 80!
The Bible does not explicitly specify the age of 13. Shmot/Ex 30.14Everyone over 20 yrs of age who is subject to the census is to give this offering to ADONI Ber/Gen 37:2 When Yosef was 17 years old still a boy.
The Mishnah [~200 CE] At five years old one should study the Scriptures, at ten years for the Mishnah, at 13 for the commandments...
Judah ben Tema [~200 CE] said: At 5 years of age the study of Scripture; At 10 the study of Mishnah; at 13 subject to the commandments; At 15 the study of Talmud; At 18 the bridal canopy; At 20 for pursuit [of livelihood]; At 30 the peak of strength;
Judah ben Tema [~200 CE] said: At 40 wisdom; At 50 able to give counsel; At 60 old age; At 70 fullness of years; At 80 the age of strength ; At 90 a bent body; At 100, as good as dead and gone completely out of the world.
Genesis Rabbah 63:10 on Gen 25:27 Written 300- 500 CE Up to 13 years Esau and Jacob went together to the primary school and back home; after the thirteen years were over, the one went to the beit midrash to study Law, the other to the house of idols.
Genesis Rabbah 63:10 Written 300-500 CE It is a mitzvah for a person to make a meal on the day his son becomes Bar Mitzvah as on the day he enters the wedding canopy.
Pirke Rabbi Eli'ezer 26[700-800] Abraham rejected the total idolatry of his father and became a worshiper of God when he was thirteen years old.
About 800 CE Masseket Soferim (18:5) In Jerusalem they are accustomed to initiate their children to fast on the Day of Atonement, a year or two before their maturity; and then, when the age has arrived, to bring the Bar Mitzvah before the priest or elder for blessing.
How did Yeshua the Messiah fit into this pattern?
Luke 2. 41-47 Every year Yeshua's parents went to Yerushalayim for the festival of Pesakh. When he was twelve years old, they went up for the festival, as custom required.
Luke 2. 41-47 But after the festival was over, when his parents returned, Yeshua remained in Yerushalayim...they spent a whole day on the road before they began searching
Luke 2. 41-47 They returned to Yerushalayim to look for him. On the third day they found him -- he was sitting in the Temple court among the rabbis,
Luke 2. 41-47 not only listening to them but questioning what they said; and everyone who heard him was astonished at his insight and his responses
1.What is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah? 2.Why have a Bat Mitzvah
; , , Dt. 28.6 A blessing on you when you go out, and a blessing on you when you come in. God meets us at transition points
God meets us at transition points Birth: Brit Milah/circumcision Puberty: entering adulthood Marriage Death
Bar/Bat Mitzvah is the expression of maturity The essence of maturity in Messiah is sacrificial love. Bar/Bat Mitzvah can be a stated entrance into Messiah s sacrificial love.
Bat Mitzvah by a non-Jewish person is expressing love for the Jewish Messiah and King, Universal Messiah and King, in a manner that Jewish people can relate to.
Ber./Gen 4.9 ADONI said to Cain, Where is Abel, your brother? I don t know, he said. Am I my brother s keeper?
Gal 5.13-15For, brothers, you were called to be free [mature, empowered]. Only do not let that freedom become an excuse for allowing your old nature to have its way. Instead, serve one another in love. For the whole of the Torah is summed up in this one sentence:
Gal 5.13-15Love your neighbor as yourself ; but if you go on snapping at each other and tearing each other to pieces, watch out, or you will be destroyed by each other!
1 Yn 3.16The way that we have come to know love is through Yeshua the Messiah having laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers and sisters!
In the parasha story, the brothers had betrayed and sold Yosef into slavery. Now their enslaved brother was [unbeknownst to them] their absolute master.
They didnt recognize him, similar to how the Jewish people don t recognize, Yeshua, because Yosef looked so foreign.
He was their promised redeemer He looked Egyptian.
He was their promised redeemer He looked Egyptian. He dressed Egyptian.
He was their promised redeemer He looked Egyptian. He dressed Egyptian. He spoke Egyptian.
He was their promised redeemer He looked Egyptian. He dressed Egyptian. He spoke Egyptian. He ate food ~Egyptian.
He was their promised redeemer He looked Egyptian. He dressed Egyptian. He spoke Egyptian. He ate food ~Egyptian. He was an enemy foreigner. He was their brother!
Statement by Yehuda of sacrificial love
Ber/Gen 44.18-28Then Yhudah approached Yosef and said, Please, my lord! Let your servant say something to you privately; and don t be angry with your servant, for you are like Pharaoh himself.
Ber/Gen 44.18-28My lord asked his servants, Do you have a father? or a brother? We answered my lord, We have a father who is an old man, and a child of his old age, a little one whose brother is dead;
Ber/Gen 44.18-28so that of his mothers children he alone is left; and his father loves him. But you said to your servants, Bring him down to me, so that I can see him. We answered my lord, The boy can t leave his father; if he were to leave his father, his father would die. You said to your servants, You will not see my face again unless your brother is with you.
Ber/Gen 44.18-28We went up to your servant my father and told him what my lord had said; but when our father said, Go again, and buy us some food, we answered, We can t go down. Only if our youngest brother is with us will we go down, because we can t see the man s face unless our youngest brother is with us.
Ber/Gen 44.18-28Then your servant my father said to us, You know that my wife bore me two sons: the one went out from me, and I said, Surely he has been torn to pieces, and I haven t seen him since.
Ber/Gen 44.29-34Now if you take this one away from me too, and something happens to him, you will bring my gray hair down to Sh ol with grief. So now if I go to your servant my father, and the boy isn t with us seeing how his heart is bound up with the boy s heart when he sees that the boy isn t with us,
