Anger: Biblical Teachings and Myths Debunked

 
ANGER
 
Jesus Teaches on Anger
Mathew 5:21-25
 
BradleyOlson.net
Anger
 
 Physiological
Response
Negative
Consequences
 
Middle
Class White
Men
Anger: Road Rage
 
Matthew 5:21-25  (NLT)
21 
“You have heard that our ancestors were told, ‘You must not
murder. If you commit murder, you are subject to
judgment. 
22 
But I say, if you are even angry with someone,
  
you
are subject to judgment! If you call someone an idiot, you are
in danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse
someone, you are in danger of the fires of hell.
23 
“So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple
and you suddenly remember that someone has something
against you, 
24 
leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and
be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your
sacrifice to God.
25 
“When you are on the way to court with your adversary, settle
your differences quickly. Otherwise, your accuser may hand
you over to the judge, who will hand you over to an officer,
and you will be thrown into prison.
 
Emotions
 
MAD
SAD
GLAD
 
HURT
AFRAID
TENDER
Myth About Anger
It is a sin
 
Truth About Anger
 
Feelings are not a sin…
Behaviors are
 
Eph. 4:26
Myth About Anger
We need to “stuff it”
We need to “release it”
 
Truth About Anger
 
Feelings “come and go”… there is no
box we stuff them in, or pressure valve
that needs to be released
Expressing anger results in more anger
 
James 1:19-20
Myth About Anger
My ____________ made me angry
 
Truth About Anger
 
No one makes me feel anything… I am
responsible for and I control my feelings
 
Eph. 4:31
Myth About Anger
Anger = Strength = Man
 
Truth About Anger
 
Explosive Anger Makes Me A Fool
 
Prov.14:29; Prov.29:11; Ecc. 7:9
Myth About Anger
Anger means I am protecting myself
 
Truth About Anger
 
Anger reflects our self-righteousness
 
James 4:6; John 14:8-11
Myth About Anger
Anger is ungodly… Un-Christian
 
Truth About Anger
 
Even our anger reflects the image of God
 
John 2:14-17; Numbers 12:9; Ps. 38:1; Jer.25:37
Kingdom Principles on Anger
 
1.
Angry Behaviors Spew From
an Angry Heart (vs. 21)
 
My angry behaviors come from my angry heart
The Kingdom of God looks at the condition of your
heart more than your behaviors
The Hidden Forces Behind Anger
 
The unconscious always “leaks”
Anger is never a primary
emotion
Angry responses are a habit
My past ALWAYS influences me
We hear what we want to hear
My self-centeredness
 
The Hidden Forces Behind Anger
 
Rooted in Distorted Beliefs About Myself
 
I’m worthless
I‘m not wanted
I deserve
I don’t deserve
I know
I’m not going to be successful
 
You intended to ________
I’m right
I’m better than
I 
need
…..
Kingdom Principles on Anger
 
2.
Anger destroys me by
destroying you (vs. 21-22)
 
My anger at you causes separation and
isolation- tears you down- and smashes my
character (my heart)
Kingdom Principles on Anger
 
3.
God desires relationship repair…. With
others and with Him (vs. 23-26)
 
This is the story of
the Gospel…
Restoration
Kingdom Principles on Anger
 
Tend to your Heart
Value People & Relationships
Restore and repair relationships
Above all- Love God & Love
Others
Grow in the Fruits of the Spirit
(love, joy, peace, patience,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, self-control)
 
Make sure the world knows:
How wronged you are
How bad they are
How you “deserve”
How “right” you are
How much better you are
You’re in charge
You’re in control
Worldly Principles on Anger
 
Kingdom Principles on Anger
 
Value People &
Relationships
 
Tend to your Heart
 
Love Others
 
How’s the condition of your heart?
What hidden forces are fueling your anger?
How has your self-righteousness fueled your anger?
How has your anger hurt others? Hurt yourself?
What relationships need repair?
How have you blamed others for your anger?
How can you take responsibility for your anger today?
What repair work do you need to do with God today?
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Explore the teachings on anger from Jesus in Matthew 5:21-25, debunk common myths about anger, and learn the truth behind emotions and behaviors as per Ephesians and James. Discover how to address anger and its consequences in a holistic manner.

  • Anger Management
  • Biblical Teachings
  • Emotional Wellness
  • Myth Busting
  • Mental Health

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  1. BradleyOlson.net ANGER Jesus Teaches on Anger Mathew 5:21-25

  2. Anger Physiological Response Negative Consequences Middle Class White Men

  3. Anger: Road Rage

  4. Matthew 5:21-25 (NLT) 21 You have heard that our ancestors were told, You must not murder. If you commit murder, you are subject to judgment.22But I say, if you are even angry with someone,you are subject to judgment! If you call someone an idiot, you are in danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse someone, you are in danger of the fires of hell. 23 So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you,24leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God. 25 When you are on the way to court with your adversary, settle your differences quickly. Otherwise, your accuser may hand you over to the judge, who will hand you over to an officer, and you will be thrown into prison.

  5. Emotions MAD SAD GLAD HURT AFRAID TENDER

  6. Myth About Anger It is a sin Truth About Anger Feelings are not a sin Behaviors are Eph. 4:26

  7. Myth About Anger We need to stuff it We need to release it Truth About Anger Feelings come and go there is no box we stuff them in, or pressure valve that needs to be released Expressing anger results in more anger James 1:19-20

  8. Myth About Anger My ____________ made me angry Truth About Anger No one makes me feel anything I am responsible for and I control my feelings Eph. 4:31

  9. Myth About Anger Anger = Strength = Man Truth About Anger Explosive Anger Makes Me A Fool Prov.14:29; Prov.29:11; Ecc. 7:9

  10. Myth About Anger Anger means I am protecting myself Truth About Anger Anger reflects our self-righteousness James 4:6; John 14:8-11

  11. Myth About Anger Anger is ungodly Un-Christian Truth About Anger Even our anger reflects the image of God John 2:14-17; Numbers 12:9; Ps. 38:1; Jer.25:37

  12. Kingdom Principles on Anger 1.Angry Behaviors Spew From an Angry Heart (vs. 21) My angry behaviors come from my angry heart The Kingdom of God looks at the condition of your heart more than your behaviors

  13. The Hidden Forces Behind Anger The unconscious always leaks Anger is never a primary emotion Angry responses are a habit My past ALWAYS influences me We hear what we want to hear My self-centeredness

  14. The Hidden Forces Behind Anger Rooted in Distorted Beliefs About Myself You intended to ________ I m right I m better than I need .. I m worthless I m not wanted I deserve I don t deserve I know I m not going to be successful

  15. Kingdom Principles on Anger 2. Anger destroys me by destroying you (vs. 21-22) My anger at you causes separation and isolation- tears you down- and smashes my character (my heart)

  16. Kingdom Principles on Anger 3.God desires relationship repair . With others and with Him (vs. 23-26) This is the story of the Gospel Restoration

  17. Worldly Principles on Anger Kingdom Principles on Anger Make sure the world knows: How wronged you are How bad they are How you deserve How right you are How much better you are You re in charge You re in control Tend to your Heart Value People & Relationships Restore and repair relationships Above all- Love God & Love Others Grow in the Fruits of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control)

  18. Kingdom Principles on Anger Tend to your Heart Value People & Relationships Love Others How s the condition of your heart? What hidden forces are fueling your anger? How has your self-righteousness fueled your anger? How has your anger hurt others? Hurt yourself? What relationships need repair? How have you blamed others for your anger? How can you take responsibility for your anger today? What repair work do you need to do with God today?

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