Marriage Trends in India: A Detailed Overview
India's marriage institution is witnessing shifts with increasing divorce rates. Education, age, and childlessness play roles in divorces, with certain professions showing higher rates. Women are initiating divorces more, and trivial issues are common grounds. Live-in relationships aren't considered crimes, and extramarital affairs are on the rise. Bangalore stands out as the divorce capital of India.
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General Facts - India: India still has one of the lowest divorce rates in the world, with about one in 1,000 marriages collapsing, according to recent studies.
General Facts - India: most couples seeking divorce were educated, between 25 and 35 years of age, and childless
General Facts - India: maximum number of divorces is among call center employees, medical professionals and those in the technology sector
General Facts - India: 85% called off their marriage within the first five years
General Facts - India: Amicable separation within the first year of marriage has increased by 30% since 2000
General Facts - India: Contrary to what prevailed earlier, more women are initiating divorce proceedings
General Facts - India: 60% divorce cases, according to one Allahabad-based family court lawyer, relate to trivial issues
General Facts - India: Live-in relationships: November 2013, a Supreme Court bench headed by Justice K S Radhakrishnan stated that live-in relationships are neither a crime nor a sin.
General Facts - India: Extra-Marital affairs whether by the husband or wife is becoming more and more prevalent
General Facts - Bangalore: Bangalore is the Divorce Capital of India with at least 25 divorce cases filed every day [Dec. 2012]
General Facts - Bangalore: While 0.1% Indian marriages end in divorce , in Bangalore 3% married couples seek separation from their partners [Dec. 2012]
Marriage and family are central to any society. If these breakdown, there will be a breakdown eventually of the moral fiber of society.
The underlying cause The wickedness of the heart
The underlying cause Matthew 15:18,19 18 But those things which proceed out of the mouth come from the heart, and they defile a man. 19 For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies.
The underlying cause Jeremiah 17:9 "The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it?
The underlying cause selfishness
The underlying cause lust
The underlying cause personal addictions and bondages
The underlying cause anger, criticism, bitterness
The underlying cause During the first 10 years: 5 out of 100 comments were put-downs. 10 out of 100 (and increasing) comments were put-downs >> later split
The underlying cause "Hostile putdowns act as cancerous cells that, if unchecked, erode the relationship over time," Notarius & Markman [1994]
What's the cure? #1, We need transformation of the heart
What's the cure? #2, We need to be released from personal bondages
What's the cure? #3, We need empowering to love, forgive, and keep loving
What's the cure? Not enough to trim the leaves, we have to deal with the root
Understanding timeless truths #1, marriage was designed by God and hence is a sacred institution
Understanding timeless truths Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, "It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him."
Understanding timeless truths Genesis 2:21-24 21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place.
Understanding timeless truths Genesis 2:21-24 22 Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.
Understanding timeless truths Genesis 2:21-24 23 And Adam said: "This is now bone of my bones And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man."
Understanding timeless truths Genesis 2:21-24 24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
Understanding timeless truths Malachi 2:14-16 14 Yet you say, "For what reason?" Because the LORD has been witness Between you and the wife of your youth, With whom you have dealt treacherously; Yet she is your companion And your wife by covenant.
Understanding timeless truths Malachi 2:14-16 15 But did He not make them one, Having a remnant of the Spirit? And why one? He seeks godly offspring. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, And let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth.
Understanding timeless truths Malachi 2:14-16 16 "For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the LORD of hosts. Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously."
Understanding timeless truths Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
Understanding timeless truths #2, marriage is intended to mirror Christ's love
Understanding timeless truths Ephesians 5:22-25 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.
Understanding timeless truths Ephesians 5:22-25 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,
Understanding timeless truths #3, the home is to be a place of quietness, confidence and rejoicing
Understanding timeless truths Isaiah 32:18 My people will dwell in a peaceful habitation, In secure dwellings, and in quiet resting places,
Understanding timeless truths Psalm 118:15 The voice of rejoicing and salvation Is in the tents of the righteous; The right hand of the LORD does valiantly.
Understanding timeless truths Proverbs 3:33 The curse of the LORD is on the house of the wicked, But He blesses the home of the just.
Understanding timeless truths Proverbs 12:7 The wicked are overthrown and are no more, But the house of the righteous will stand.
How do we become brand new, receive freedom and the power to love?
We need to come to the "author and finisher" of marriage and family to receive His work in our lives
