Taharah Training Procedures for Jewish Burial Preparation

Taharah
Taharah
 Training
 Training
Prepared by Rick Light
For the
Kavod v
Nichum
North American Chevrah Kadisha
and Jewish Cemetery Conferences
First presented in June 2006
Revised May 2016
General Outline
General Outline
Preparation procedures.
Washing the 
meit(ah) 
– Physical cleansing.
Taharah
 – Spiritual cleansing.
Dressing the 
meit(ah)
.
Placing the 
meit(ah) 
into the 
aron
.
Cleaning up.
Debriefing.
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Disclaimer
Disclaimer
The procedures used by 
The procedures used by 
Chevrah Kadisha 
Chevrah Kadisha 
groups to prepare
groups to prepare
Jewish bodies for burial are largely 
Jewish bodies for burial are largely 
minhag
minhag
 – local customs
 – local customs
passed down from generation to generation.
passed down from generation to generation.
Some organizations may use different procedures from those
Some organizations may use different procedures from those
presented here.
presented here.
What is presented here is an amalgam of the most common
What is presented here is an amalgam of the most common
procedures among a variety of 
procedures among a variety of 
chevrah
chevrah
 groups.
 groups.
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Reference Manuals
Reference Manuals
Each 
Chevrah Kadisha 
should maintain or prepare a
manual of its procedures.  This:
Ensures consistency of quality.
Preserves community customs.
Makes training more consistent.
Facilitates communication.
A partial list of reference manuals is given at the end
A partial list of reference manuals is given at the end
of this presentation.
of this presentation.
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Glossary
Glossary
Afar
Afar
 – earth from Israel placed into the casket and on the 
 – earth from Israel placed into the casket and on the 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
Aron
Aron
 – the casket.  Jewish custom suggests the casket be made of plain wood,
 – the casket.  Jewish custom suggests the casket be made of plain wood,
without metal, and be minimally adorned.
without metal, and be minimally adorned.
Chevrah Kadisha 
Chevrah Kadisha 
– lit. 
– lit. 
Holy 
Holy 
Fellowship, the 
Fellowship, the 
Jewish Burial Society
Jewish Burial Society
 responsible for
 responsible for
properly preparing Jewish bodies for burial.  It is customary for this group to work
properly preparing Jewish bodies for burial.  It is customary for this group to work
anonymously within the community performing 
anonymously within the community performing 
Tahara
Tahara
 rituals when needed.
 rituals when needed.
Dom
Dom
 – blood.
 – blood.
K
K
vod hameit 
vod hameit 
– honoring (showing respect for) the dead.
– honoring (showing respect for) the dead.
Meit
Meit
 – a deceased man.
 – a deceased man.
Meitah
Meitah
 – a deceased woman.
 – a deceased woman.
Sovev 
Sovev 
– sheet placed into the casket, wrapped around the 
– sheet placed into the casket, wrapped around the 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
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Glossary Continued
Glossary Continued
Tachrichim
Tachrichim
 – burial shrouds, specifically the clothes (usually plain linen or
 – burial shrouds, specifically the clothes (usually plain linen or
muslin) intended to represent the attire of the High Priest, as follows:
muslin) intended to represent the attire of the High Priest, as follows:
Mitsnefet
Mitsnefet
 –  a full-head-covering (including face) for a man, bonnet for a woman.
 –  a full-head-covering (including face) for a man, bonnet for a woman.
Michnasayim
Michnasayim
 –  trousers with a tie at the waist and often the legs are sewn shut
 –  trousers with a tie at the waist and often the legs are sewn shut
at the feet.
at the feet.
K
K
tonet
tonet
 –  long-sleeve shirt with no collar, with tie at neck.
 –  long-sleeve shirt with no collar, with tie at neck.
Kittel
Kittel
 – long-sleeve robe or jacket with collar, with tie at neck.
 – long-sleeve robe or jacket with collar, with tie at neck.
Avnet
Avnet
 or 
 or 
Gartle
Gartle
 –  simple linen strap used as a belt.
 –  simple linen strap used as a belt.
Apron – simple apron of linen
Apron – simple apron of linen
Taharah
Taharah
 –  the ritual cleansing of the deceased to provide spiritual
 –  the ritual cleansing of the deceased to provide spiritual
cleansing before burial.  Sometimes used to mean the entire process of the
cleansing before burial.  Sometimes used to mean the entire process of the
physical and spiritual washing of the 
physical and spiritual washing of the 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
, the dressing in 
, the dressing in 
tachrichim
tachrichim
,
,
and the placing of it into the casket.
and the placing of it into the casket.
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Preparation
Preparation
Pre-briefing
Pre-briefing
:  assign tasks, clarify assignments, review
:  assign tasks, clarify assignments, review
rules, be sure team is emotionally prepared:
rules, be sure team is emotionally prepared:
Who is the leader? – single person in charge.
Who is the leader? – single person in charge.
Who is/are the reader(s) – designated person(s) or everyone.
Who is/are the reader(s) – designated person(s) or everyone.
Who will organize the shrouds (
Who will organize the shrouds (
tachrichim
tachrichim
)?
)?
Who will organize the casket (
Who will organize the casket (
aron
aron
)?
)?
Who will organize the supplies, buckets, equipment?
Who will organize the supplies, buckets, equipment?
Divide these tasks among the 
Divide these tasks among the 
Tahara
Tahara
 team as appropriate.
 team as appropriate.
Is everyone emotionally OK to do this?
Is everyone emotionally OK to do this?
Everyone participating should know what is expected.
Everyone participating should know what is expected.
Leader directs all activities, makes all decisions.
Leader directs all activities, makes all decisions.
Leader should have advisor available if needed.
Leader should have advisor available if needed.
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Preparation Continued
Preparation Continued
Some thoughts on reader responsibilities:
All readings should be read carefully and clearly aloud.
Some groups have the entire team read together in unison.
Some groups memorize the readings ahead of time.
Can be read in Hebrew, or English, or both (simultaneously,
Hebrew chanted softly, English read aloud).
Should be read such that the 
Taharah
 team understands what is
being read.
Should be read with 
kavanah
 (sincerity and intent to honor the
dead).
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Preparation Continued
Preparation Continued
Basic rules of 
Basic rules of 
k
k
vod hameit 
vod hameit 
(honoring the dead):
(honoring the dead):
Assume an attitude of respect for the dignity of the dead.
Assume an attitude of respect for the dignity of the dead.
Always refer to the 
Always refer to the 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
by his/her name.
by his/her name.
No unnecessary conversation.
No unnecessary conversation.
Do not stand at head of 
Do not stand at head of 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
except when necessary.
except when necessary.
Pass nothing over the body of the 
Pass nothing over the body of the 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
Follow directions of the leader, disagreements should be
Follow directions of the leader, disagreements should be
resolved later (after completion of the 
resolved later (after completion of the 
Taharah
Taharah
).
).
Details of 
Details of 
Taharah
Taharah
 events are confidential to the team.
 events are confidential to the team.
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Preparation Continued
Preparation Continued
Entire team states intentions and asks for guidance
Entire team states intentions and asks for guidance
before entering 
before entering 
Taharah
Taharah
 room:
 room:
Source of kindness and compassion, … grant us the
Source of kindness and compassion, … grant us the
courage and the strength to properly perform this work, …
courage and the strength to properly perform this work, …
guide our hands and hearts … help us to see Your holiness in
guide our hands and hearts … help us to see Your holiness in
the face of the deceased and in the faces of each other …
the face of the deceased and in the faces of each other …
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Preparation Continued
Preparation Continued
Enter 
Enter 
Taharah
Taharah
 room in silence, set things up:
 room in silence, set things up:
Some groups light a candle.
Some groups light a candle.
Don personal protective clothing, ritually wash hands, double
Don personal protective clothing, ritually wash hands, double
glove.
glove.
Fill 2 containers for physical washing (warm water).
Fill 2 containers for physical washing (warm water).
Organize shrouds (
Organize shrouds (
tachrichim
tachrichim
). 
). 
[details later in this presentation]
[details later in this presentation]
Organize casket (
Organize casket (
aron
aron
). 
). 
[details later in this presentation]
[details later in this presentation]
Organize supplies so tools are at hand.
Organize supplies so tools are at hand.
Remove all clothing, hospital gowns, tags, medical apparatus, etc.
Remove all clothing, hospital gowns, tags, medical apparatus, etc.
The 
The 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
should be naked under clean sheet.  Save jewelry,
should be naked under clean sheet.  Save jewelry,
hearing aids in bag for funeral director.  Do not remove false
hearing aids in bag for funeral director.  Do not remove false
teeth or contact lenses. Put name tags in casket.
teeth or contact lenses. Put name tags in casket.
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A Note About the Candle
A Note About the Candle
Some 
Some 
chevrot
chevrot
 light a candle when they enter the 
 light a candle when they enter the 
Taharah
Taharah
room:
room:
It stays lit during the entire process.
It stays lit during the entire process.
It then is placed at the head of the 
It then is placed at the head of the 
aron
aron
 upon completion of
 upon completion of
the procedures.
the procedures.
This is done for several reasons:
This is done for several reasons:
Reminds everyone of the holiness of life and death.
Reminds everyone of the holiness of life and death.
Represents the life of the deceased.
Represents the life of the deceased.
In remote or unusual circumstances, it can act as 
In remote or unusual circumstances, it can act as 
shomer
shomer
 until
 until
burial.
burial.
Reminds the funeral home personnel in non-Jewish funeral
Reminds the funeral home personnel in non-Jewish funeral
homes that this is a Jewish burial.
homes that this is a Jewish burial.
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Washing the 
Washing the 
Meit(ah)
Meit(ah)
Some thoughts about respect:
Some thoughts about respect:
The 
The 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
is covered with sheet at all times except
is covered with sheet at all times except
during rinsing and the 
during rinsing and the 
Taharah
Taharah
 itself.
 itself.
Uncover only small portions of body at any one time.
Uncover only small portions of body at any one time.
Speak softly and only when necessary.
Speak softly and only when necessary.
Clean the body gently.
Clean the body gently.
Most important thing:
Most important thing:
Have intentions of kindness, dignity, and respect toward
Have intentions of kindness, dignity, and respect toward
the 
the 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
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Washing the 
Washing the 
Meit(ah) 
Meit(ah) 
Continued
Continued
Say 
Say 
Chamol.
Chamol.
Say 
Say 
Vaya
Vaya
an Vayomer 
an Vayomer 
while clothing is cut off.
while clothing is cut off.
Place clean dry sheet over naked body.
Place clean dry sheet over naked body.
Cleanse entire body:
Cleanse entire body:
head, right side, left side, front, back.
head, right side, left side, front, back.
Use warm water, be gentle, be thorough.
Use warm water, be gentle, be thorough.
Collect any blood, fingernail clippings, or hair in bag that
Collect any blood, fingernail clippings, or hair in bag that
goes into 
goes into 
aron
aron
.
.
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Washing the 
Washing the 
Meit(ah) 
Meit(ah) 
Continued
Continued
As body is washed, recite:
As body is washed, recite:
Hinakh Yaffah
Hinakh Yaffah
 
 
(for a woman),
(for a woman),
 or
 or
Rosho Ketem Paz
Rosho Ketem Paz
 
 
(for a man, and sometimes for a woman).
(for a man, and sometimes for a woman).
Some have custom to rinse entire body after washing:
Some have custom to rinse entire body after washing:
Turn body, pour entire length of right side.
Turn body, pour entire length of right side.
Turn body, pour entire length of left side.
Turn body, pour entire length of left side.
Pour entire length of front.
Pour entire length of front.
Dry body and table.
Dry body and table.
Cover body with clean dry sheet.
Cover body with clean dry sheet.
Discard gloves; wash hands again, reglove.
Discard gloves; wash hands again, reglove.
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The Ritual of 
The Ritual of 
Taharah
Taharah
Fill containers with 24 quarts of cold water 
Fill containers with 24 quarts of cold water 
(eg., 3 buckets of 8
(eg., 3 buckets of 8
quarts each – need 9 
quarts each – need 9 
kavim
kavim
 of water)
 of water)
.
.
Dip boards in bucket water, place under 
Dip boards in bucket water, place under 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
Recite 
Recite 
Amar Rabbi Akiva.
Amar Rabbi Akiva.
Some groups have canopy 
Some groups have canopy 
minhag
minhag
 – clean sheet becomes
 – clean sheet becomes
chupah
chupah
 over the 
 over the 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
during pouring
during pouring
.
.
Those holding sheet face away from the 
Those holding sheet face away from the 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
Best to have at least 4 (sometimes 5 or more) team members
Best to have at least 4 (sometimes 5 or more) team members
present.
present.
Uncover 
Uncover 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
, then pour water in continuous flow of
, then pour water in continuous flow of
24 quarts (simulate a running mountain stream):
24 quarts (simulate a running mountain stream):
As one bucket completes its flow the next is started.
As one bucket completes its flow the next is started.
Pour right side first, then left, then center.
Pour right side first, then left, then center.
Start at head, pour entire length of body.
Start at head, pour entire length of body.
There are 
There are 
minhag
minhag
 variations to this.
 variations to this.
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Taharah
Taharah
 Continued
 Continued
While pouring occurs, all team members recite:
While pouring occurs, all team members recite:
For a Woman: “she is pure” 
For a Woman: “she is pure” 
 Tehora hee, tehora hee, tehora hee
 Tehora hee, tehora hee, tehora hee
.
.
For a Man: “he is pure” 
For a Man: “he is pure” 
 Tahor hu, tahor hu, tahor hu
 Tahor hu, tahor hu, tahor hu
.
.
If there is a break in the flow, refill and repeat pouring.
If there is a break in the flow, refill and repeat pouring.
Lower canopy sheet onto body, or cover body with clean
Lower canopy sheet onto body, or cover body with clean
sheet immediately after pouring is completed.
sheet immediately after pouring is completed.
Dry the 
Dry the 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
and table thoroughly, cover with clean
and table thoroughly, cover with clean
dry sheet.  Use different towels for body and table.
dry sheet.  Use different towels for body and table.
Remove boards, set aside for cleaning later.
Remove boards, set aside for cleaning later.
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Dressing the 
Dressing the 
Meit(ah)
Meit(ah)
Dressing basics:
Dressing basics:
In death all are equal to the 
In death all are equal to the 
Kohen Gadol
Kohen Gadol
, the High Priest.
, the High Priest.
Therefore, we dress everyone in 
Therefore, we dress everyone in 
tachrichim
tachrichim
 identically.
 identically.
Shrouds (
Shrouds (
tachrichim
tachrichim
) should be laid out ahead of time in the
) should be laid out ahead of time in the
order needed to facilitate this process.
order needed to facilitate this process.
Carefully support head at all times during dressing.
Carefully support head at all times during dressing.
Team members on opposite sides of table work together in
Team members on opposite sides of table work together in
dressing and knot tying .
dressing and knot tying .
Recite 
Recite 
Sos Assis.
Sos Assis.
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Dressing the 
Dressing the 
Meit(ah) 
Meit(ah) 
Continued
Continued
Order of dressing:
Order of dressing:
Keep face covered with small cloth until head covering later.
Keep face covered with small cloth until head covering later.
1.
K
K
tonet 
tonet 
(collarless shirt)
(collarless shirt)
Recite 
Recite 
…you shall wear a holy tunic…
…you shall wear a holy tunic…
Tie knot at neck.
Tie knot at neck.
2.
Mikhnasayim
Mikhnasayim
 (pants)
 (pants)
Recite 
Recite 
…and linen breeches shall be on your flesh…
…and linen breeches shall be on your flesh…
Tie knots at waist and ankles (man) or below knees (woman).
Tie knots at waist and ankles (man) or below knees (woman).
3.
Kittle
Kittle
 (jacket with collar)
 (jacket with collar)
Tie knot at neck.
Tie knot at neck.
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Dressing the 
Dressing the 
Meit(ah) 
Meit(ah) 
Continued
Continued
Order of dressing continued:
Order of dressing continued:
4.
Avnet / gartel 
Avnet / gartel 
(belt)
(belt)
Recite 
Recite 
…and a linen sash shall you tie…
…and a linen sash shall you tie…
Tie knot at waist.
Tie knot at waist.
Tuck cut-off 
Tuck cut-off 
tzitzit
tzitzit
 into the belt (if 
 into the belt (if 
tallit
tallit
 is present)
 is present)
5.
Cover the head:
Cover the head:
For a woman
For a woman
: place on the veil, then 
: place on the veil, then 
mitznefet
mitznefet
 (bonnet)
 (bonnet)
Recite 
Recite 
…and a linen headdress shall you don…
…and a linen headdress shall you don…
For a man
For a man
: place on a 
: place on a 
kipah
kipah
, then 
, then 
mitznefet
mitznefet
 (hood)
 (hood)
Recite 
Recite 
…and a linen headdress shall you don…
…and a linen headdress shall you don…
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Dressing the 
Dressing the 
Meit(ah) 
Meit(ah) 
Continued
Continued
Knots are important part of dressing the 
Knots are important part of dressing the 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
Two people work together to twist, then one ties the
Two people work together to twist, then one ties the
knot, as appropriate.
knot, as appropriate.
Count aloud 
Count aloud 
alef, bet, gimel, dalet 
alef, bet, gimel, dalet 
delineating 4 twists.
delineating 4 twists.
The following diagrams show how this is done.
The following diagrams show how this is done.
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Starting Position for Knot Tying
Starting Position for Knot Tying
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Twisting is Done By 2 People: Aleph
Twisting is Done By 2 People: Aleph
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End of Twisting
End of Twisting
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First Step in Tying Loops
First Step in Tying Loops
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Second Step in Tying Loops
Second Step in Tying Loops
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Final Step in Tying Loops
Final Step in Tying Loops
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Finished Knots: 
Finished Knots: 
Shin
Shin
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Finished Knots: 
Finished Knots: 
Shadai
Shadai
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Moving into the 
Moving into the 
Aron
Aron
Casket (
Casket (
aron
aron
) should be prepared ahead of time, but if
) should be prepared ahead of time, but if
necessary do this now:
necessary do this now:
Remove all fancy innards, some leave a little straw for pillow.
Remove all fancy innards, some leave a little straw for pillow.
Drill holes in bottom (if possible, do outside of 
Drill holes in bottom (if possible, do outside of 
Tahara
Tahara
 room);
 room);
check with funeral home and Rabbi before drilling.
check with funeral home and Rabbi before drilling.
Sovev
Sovev
 (sheet) should be diagonally draped across 
 (sheet) should be diagonally draped across 
aron
aron
.
.
Tallit
Tallit
 should be draped in place ready to wrap shoulders
 should be draped in place ready to wrap shoulders
(with one 
(with one 
tzitzit
tzitzit
 removed).
 removed).
Afar
Afar
 (Israeli earth) should be sprinkled inside.
 (Israeli earth) should be sprinkled inside.
Recite 
Recite 
Vehu Rahum.
Vehu Rahum.
Place pillow sack with straw and 
Place pillow sack with straw and 
afar
afar
 inside into 
 inside into 
aron
aron
.
.
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Moving into the 
Moving into the 
Aron
Aron
 Continued
 Continued
Move body respectfully into 
Move body respectfully into 
aron
aron
, laying 
, laying 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
gently onto
gently onto
sovev
sovev
.
.
If room allows, place 
If room allows, place 
aron
aron
 at foot of table, lift from both sides of table,
 at foot of table, lift from both sides of table,
walk to 
walk to 
aron
aron
 and lower 
 and lower 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
into 
into 
aron
aron
.
.
Alternatively, place 
Alternatively, place 
aron
aron
 next to table, parallel to it, lift from side of
 next to table, parallel to it, lift from side of
table and from across 
table and from across 
aron
aron
, gently move body into 
, gently move body into 
aron
aron
.
.
Some funeral homes have hydraulic lifts that can easily lift the body.
Some funeral homes have hydraulic lifts that can easily lift the body.
Always support the head during the move.
Always support the head during the move.
Recite 
Recite 
Velo Yavo
Velo Yavo
u.
u.
Sprinkle 
Sprinkle 
afar
afar
 on eyes, mouth, genitals, heart.
 on eyes, mouth, genitals, heart.
Recite 
Recite 
Vekhiper Admato Ano.
Vekhiper Admato Ano.
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Moving into the 
Moving into the 
Aron
Aron
 Continued
 Continued
Place pottery shards (
Place pottery shards (
sherbloch
sherbloch
) over eyes and mouth.
) over eyes and mouth.
Wrap 
Wrap 
tallit
tallit
 over shoulders.
 over shoulders.
Wrap 
Wrap 
sovev
sovev
 around 
 around 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
feet, right side, left side, head
feet, right side, left side, head
Recite 
Recite 
Hinei Mitato.
Hinei Mitato.
Entire team asks 
Entire team asks 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
for forgiveness for any
for forgiveness for any
disrespect during this procedure.
disrespect during this procedure.
Place lid on 
Place lid on 
aron
aron
; some place the lit candle on lid.
; some place the lit candle on lid.
Recite 
Recite 
Uvinsoa Hamishkan.
Uvinsoa Hamishkan.
Wheel 
Wheel 
aron
aron
 (feet first) into area where 
 (feet first) into area where 
shmirah
shmirah
 can
 can
continue.
continue.
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Cleaning Up
Cleaning Up
Team restores order to 
Team restores order to 
Taharah
Taharah
 room.
 room.
Wash and dry boards placed under 
Wash and dry boards placed under 
meit(ah)
meit(ah)
.
.
Clean and put away supplies.
Clean and put away supplies.
Place dirty laundry into appropriate container.
Place dirty laundry into appropriate container.
Dispose of biohazard materials appropriately.
Dispose of biohazard materials appropriately.
Remove gloves, smocks.
Remove gloves, smocks.
Wash hands ritually, then with soap/hot water.
Wash hands ritually, then with soap/hot water.
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Debriefing
Debriefing
Participation in 
Taharah
 is among the most powerful of
human experiences.
Intense feelings and reactions are common.
Very important to support each other and set aside time
to address and honor these.
Immediately after 
Taharah
, team should discuss feelings.
Leader should follow up if team members have issues.
Confidentiality and sacred space awareness is essential,
as is anonymity of those participating.
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Handling Difficult Situations
Handling Difficult Situations
Some 
Some 
Taharot
Taharot
 require special effort:
 require special effort:
Infectious diseases, must assume the worst. If funeral home
Infectious diseases, must assume the worst. If funeral home
gives specific instructions, follow them.
gives specific instructions, follow them.
Violent death – sometimes ritual 
Violent death – sometimes ritual 
Taharah
Taharah
 cannot be
 cannot be
performed, or the 
performed, or the 
meit(ah) 
meit(ah) 
cannot be dressed as usual.
cannot be dressed as usual.
Wash as best you can, pour as best you can, lay 
Wash as best you can, pour as best you can, lay 
tachrichim
tachrichim
on the body if you cannot dress it.
on the body if you cannot dress it.
Body wastes and excretions.
Body wastes and excretions.
Fluid flows that are difficult to stop.
Fluid flows that are difficult to stop.
Removal/handling of various medical items attached to the
Removal/handling of various medical items attached to the
body.
body.
Leader must decide on the spot how to handle these
Leader must decide on the spot how to handle these
situations.
situations.
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Bridgeport, CT:
3
rd
 Edition, 2005. 
(Available From Kavod v'Nichum)
Kelman, Stuart, and Fendel, Dan. 
Chesed Shel Emet, The Truest
Act of Kindness. 
EKS Publishing, Albany, CA: 3
rd
 Edition, 2013.
Light, Richard A. 
To Midwife A Soul,
 
Guidelines for Performing
Tahara. 
Santa Fe, NM: 5
th
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Light, Richard A. 
Final Kindness: Honoring K’rovei Yisrael,
Burial Preparation of Non-Jews Who Are Part of the Jewish
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 Santa Fe, NM: 2013.
Sandler-Philips, Regina. 
PSJC Hevra Kadisha Tahara Manual.
Park Slope Jewish Center, Brooklyn, NY: 2
nd
 Edition, 2009.
36
Reference Manuals Continued
Schlingenbaum, Yechezkel. 
Tahara Guide
. New Haven Chevra
Kadisha, New Haven, CT: 1993.
Also of interest:
Berman, Rochel U. 
Dignity Beyond Death, The Jewish
Preparation for Burial.
 Urim Publications, Jerusalem: 2005.
Light, Richard A. 
Jewish Rites of Death, Stories of Beauty and
Transformation
. Terra Nova Books, Santa Fe, NM: 2016.
37
Questions?
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This comprehensive guide outlines the traditional procedures followed by Chevrah Kadisha groups to prepare Jewish bodies for burial, encompassing physical and spiritual cleansing, dressing, placing in the casket, and post-preparation tasks. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining consistency, respecting community customs, and providing quality service for the deceased.

  • Jewish customs
  • Burial preparation
  • Taharah training
  • Chevrah Kadisha
  • Spiritual cleansing

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  1. Taharah Training Prepared by Rick Light For the Kavod v Nichum North American Chevrah Kadisha and Jewish Cemetery Conferences First presented in June 2006 Revised May 2016

  2. General Outline Preparation procedures. Washing the meit(ah) Physical cleansing. Taharah Spiritual cleansing. Dressing the meit(ah). Placing the meit(ah) into the aron. Cleaning up. Debriefing. 2

  3. Disclaimer The procedures used by Chevrah Kadisha groups to prepare Jewish bodies for burial are largely minhag local customs passed down from generation to generation. Some organizations may use different procedures from those presented here. What is presented here is an amalgam of the most common procedures among a variety of chevrah groups. 3

  4. Reference Manuals Each Chevrah Kadisha should maintain or prepare a manual of its procedures. This: Ensures consistency of quality. Preserves community customs. Makes training more consistent. Facilitates communication. A partial list of reference manuals is given at the end of this presentation. 4

  5. Glossary Afar earth from Israel placed into the casket and on the meit(ah). Aron the casket. Jewish custom suggests the casket be made of plain wood, without metal, and be minimally adorned. Chevrah Kadisha lit. Holy Fellowship, the Jewish Burial Society responsible for properly preparing Jewish bodies for burial. It is customary for this group to work anonymously within the community performing Tahara rituals when needed. Dom blood. K vod hameit honoring (showing respect for) the dead. Meit a deceased man. Meitah a deceased woman. Sovev sheet placed into the casket, wrapped around the meit(ah). 5

  6. Glossary Continued Tachrichim burial shrouds, specifically the clothes (usually plain linen or muslin) intended to represent the attire of the High Priest, as follows: Mitsnefet a full-head-covering (including face) for a man, bonnet for a woman. Michnasayim trousers with a tie at the waist and often the legs are sewn shut at the feet. K tonet long-sleeve shirt with no collar, with tie at neck. Kittel long-sleeve robe or jacket with collar, with tie at neck. Avnet or Gartle simple linen strap used as a belt. Apron simple apron of linen Taharah the ritual cleansing of the deceased to provide spiritual cleansing before burial. Sometimes used to mean the entire process of the physical and spiritual washing of the meit(ah), the dressing in tachrichim, and the placing of it into the casket. 6

  7. Preparation Pre-briefing: assign tasks, clarify assignments, review rules, be sure team is emotionally prepared: Who is the leader? single person in charge. Who is/are the reader(s) designated person(s) or everyone. Who will organize the shrouds (tachrichim)? Who will organize the casket (aron)? Who will organize the supplies, buckets, equipment? Divide these tasks among the Tahara team as appropriate. Is everyone emotionally OK to do this? Everyone participating should know what is expected. Leader directs all activities, makes all decisions. Leader should have advisor available if needed. 7

  8. Preparation Continued Some thoughts on reader responsibilities: All readings should be read carefully and clearly aloud. Some groups have the entire team read together in unison. Some groups memorize the readings ahead of time. Can be read in Hebrew, or English, or both (simultaneously, Hebrew chanted softly, English read aloud). Should be read such that the Taharah team understands what is being read. Should be read with kavanah (sincerity and intent to honor the dead). 8

  9. Preparation Continued Basic rules of k vod hameit (honoring the dead): Assume an attitude of respect for the dignity of the dead. Always refer to the meit(ah) by his/her name. No unnecessary conversation. Do not stand at head of meit(ah) except when necessary. Pass nothing over the body of the meit(ah). Follow directions of the leader, disagreements should be resolved later (after completion of the Taharah). Details of Taharah events are confidential to the team. 9

  10. Preparation Continued Entire team states intentions and asks for guidance before entering Taharah room: Source of kindness and compassion, grant us the courage and the strength to properly perform this work, guide our hands and hearts help us to see Your holiness in the face of the deceased and in the faces of each other 10

  11. Preparation Continued Enter Taharah room in silence, set things up: Some groups light a candle. Don personal protective clothing, ritually wash hands, double glove. Fill 2 containers for physical washing (warm water). Organize shrouds (tachrichim). [details later in this presentation] Organize casket (aron). [details later in this presentation] Organize supplies so tools are at hand. Remove all clothing, hospital gowns, tags, medical apparatus, etc. The meit(ah) should be naked under clean sheet. Save jewelry, hearing aids in bag for funeral director. Do not remove false teeth or contact lenses. Put name tags in casket. 11

  12. A Note About the Candle Some chevrot light a candle when they enter the Taharah room: It stays lit during the entire process. It then is placed at the head of the aron upon completion of the procedures. This is done for several reasons: Reminds everyone of the holiness of life and death. Represents the life of the deceased. In remote or unusual circumstances, it can act as shomer until burial. Reminds the funeral home personnel in non-Jewish funeral homes that this is a Jewish burial. 12

  13. Washing the Meit(ah) Some thoughts about respect: The meit(ah) is covered with sheet at all times except during rinsing and the Taharah itself. Uncover only small portions of body at any one time. Speak softly and only when necessary. Clean the body gently. Most important thing: Have intentions of kindness, dignity, and respect toward the meit(ah). 13

  14. Washing the Meit(ah) Continued Say Chamol. Say Vaya an Vayomer while clothing is cut off. Place clean dry sheet over naked body. Cleanse entire body: head, right side, left side, front, back. Use warm water, be gentle, be thorough. Collect any blood, fingernail clippings, or hair in bag that goes into aron. 14

  15. Washing the Meit(ah) Continued As body is washed, recite: Hinakh Yaffah(for a woman), or Rosho Ketem Paz(for a man, and sometimes for a woman). Some have custom to rinse entire body after washing: Turn body, pour entire length of right side. Turn body, pour entire length of left side. Pour entire length of front. Dry body and table. Cover body with clean dry sheet. Discard gloves; wash hands again, reglove. 15

  16. The Ritual of Taharah Fill containers with 24 quarts of cold water (eg., 3 buckets of 8 quarts each need 9 kavim of water). Dip boards in bucket water, place under meit(ah). Recite Amar Rabbi Akiva. Some groups have canopy minhag clean sheet becomes chupah over the meit(ah) during pouring. Those holding sheet face away from the meit(ah). Best to have at least 4 (sometimes 5 or more) team members present. Uncover meit(ah), then pour water in continuous flow of 24 quarts (simulate a running mountain stream): As one bucket completes its flow the next is started. Pour right side first, then left, then center. Start at head, pour entire length of body. There are minhag variations to this. 16

  17. Taharah Continued While pouring occurs, all team members recite: For a Woman: she is pure Tehora hee, tehora hee, tehora hee. For a Man: he is pure Tahor hu, tahor hu, tahor hu. If there is a break in the flow, refill and repeat pouring. Lower canopy sheet onto body, or cover body with clean sheet immediately after pouring is completed. Dry the meit(ah) and table thoroughly, cover with clean dry sheet. Use different towels for body and table. Remove boards, set aside for cleaning later. 17

  18. Dressing the Meit(ah) Dressing basics: In death all are equal to the Kohen Gadol, the High Priest. Therefore, we dress everyone in tachrichim identically. Shrouds (tachrichim) should be laid out ahead of time in the order needed to facilitate this process. Carefully support head at all times during dressing. Team members on opposite sides of table work together in dressing and knot tying . Recite Sos Assis. 18

  19. Dressing the Meit(ah) Continued Order of dressing: Keep face covered with small cloth until head covering later. 1. K tonet (collarless shirt) Recite you shall wear a holy tunic Tie knot at neck. 2. Mikhnasayim (pants) Recite and linen breeches shall be on your flesh Tie knots at waist and ankles (man) or below knees (woman). 3. Kittle (jacket with collar) Tie knot at neck. 19

  20. Dressing the Meit(ah) Continued Order of dressing continued: 4. Avnet / gartel (belt) Recite and a linen sash shall you tie Tie knot at waist. Tuck cut-off tzitzit into the belt (if tallit is present) 5. Cover the head: For a woman: place on the veil, then mitznefet (bonnet) Recite and a linen headdress shall you don For a man: place on a kipah, then mitznefet (hood) Recite and a linen headdress shall you don 20

  21. Dressing the Meit(ah) Continued Knots are important part of dressing the meit(ah). Two people work together to twist, then one ties the knot, as appropriate. Count aloud alef, bet, gimel, dalet delineating 4 twists. The following diagrams show how this is done. 21

  22. Starting Position for Knot Tying 22

  23. Twisting is Done By 2 People: Aleph 23

  24. End of Twisting 24

  25. First Step in Tying Loops 25

  26. Second Step in Tying Loops 26

  27. Final Step in Tying Loops 27

  28. Finished Knots: Shin 28

  29. Finished Knots: Shadai 29

  30. Moving into the Aron Casket (aron) should be prepared ahead of time, but if necessary do this now: Remove all fancy innards, some leave a little straw for pillow. Drill holes in bottom (if possible, do outside of Tahara room); check with funeral home and Rabbi before drilling. Sovev (sheet) should be diagonally draped across aron. Tallit should be draped in place ready to wrap shoulders (with one tzitzit removed). Afar (Israeli earth) should be sprinkled inside. Recite Vehu Rahum. Place pillow sack with straw and afar inside into aron. 30

  31. Moving into the Aron Continued Move body respectfully into aron, laying meit(ah) gently onto sovev. If room allows, place aron at foot of table, lift from both sides of table, walk to aron and lower meit(ah) into aron. Alternatively, place aron next to table, parallel to it, lift from side of table and from across aron, gently move body into aron. Some funeral homes have hydraulic lifts that can easily lift the body. Always support the head during the move. Recite Velo Yavo u. Sprinkle afar on eyes, mouth, genitals, heart. Recite Vekhiper Admato Ano. 31

  32. Moving into the Aron Continued Place pottery shards (sherbloch) over eyes and mouth. Wrap tallit over shoulders. Wrap sovev around meit(ah). feet, right side, left side, head Recite Hinei Mitato. Entire team asks meit(ah) for forgiveness for any disrespect during this procedure. Place lid on aron; some place the lit candle on lid. Recite Uvinsoa Hamishkan. Wheel aron (feet first) into area where shmirah can continue. 32

  33. Cleaning Up Team restores order to Taharah room. Wash and dry boards placed under meit(ah). Clean and put away supplies. Place dirty laundry into appropriate container. Dispose of biohazard materials appropriately. Remove gloves, smocks. Wash hands ritually, then with soap/hot water. 33

  34. Debriefing Participation in Taharah is among the most powerful of human experiences. Intense feelings and reactions are common. Very important to support each other and set aside time to address and honor these. Immediately after Taharah, team should discuss feelings. Leader should follow up if team members have issues. Confidentiality and sacred space awareness is essential, as is anonymity of those participating. 34

  35. Handling Difficult Situations Some Taharot require special effort: Infectious diseases, must assume the worst. If funeral home gives specific instructions, follow them. Violent death sometimes ritual Taharah cannot be performed, or the meit(ah) cannot be dressed as usual. Wash as best you can, pour as best you can, lay tachrichim on the body if you cannot dress it. Body wastes and excretions. Fluid flows that are difficult to stop. Removal/handling of various medical items attached to the body. Leader must decide on the spot how to handle these situations. 35

  36. Reference Manuals Epstein, Mosha. Tahara Manual of Practices Including Halacha Decisions of Hagaon Harav Moshe Feinstein, zt l. Bridgeport, CT: 3rd Edition, 2005. (Available From Kavod v'Nichum) Kelman, Stuart, and Fendel, Dan. Chesed Shel Emet, The Truest Act of Kindness. EKS Publishing, Albany, CA: 3rd Edition, 2013. Light, Richard A. To Midwife A Soul,Guidelines for Performing Tahara. Santa Fe, NM: 5th Edition, 2016. Light, Richard A. Final Kindness: Honoring K rovei Yisrael, Burial Preparation of Non-Jews Who Are Part of the Jewish Community. Santa Fe, NM: 2013. Sandler-Philips, Regina. PSJC Hevra Kadisha Tahara Manual. Park Slope Jewish Center, Brooklyn, NY: 2nd Edition, 2009. 36

  37. Reference Manuals Continued Schlingenbaum, Yechezkel. Tahara Guide. New Haven Chevra Kadisha, New Haven, CT: 1993. Also of interest: Berman, Rochel U. Dignity Beyond Death, The Jewish Preparation for Burial. Urim Publications, Jerusalem: 2005. Light, Richard A. Jewish Rites of Death, Stories of Beauty and Transformation. Terra Nova Books, Santa Fe, NM: 2016. 37

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