Managing Anxiety in School-Going Children

 
Anxiety related to School
Attendance
 
Dr Amina Tareen
 
Consultant Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Barnet
Honorary Teaching Fellow, Imperial College
 
Recall the most recent time you felt
anxious
 
Bring it alive again in your mind
Recall the situation
Recall your thoughts
Recall your feelings
Recall the sensations in your body
 
Why focus this talk on managing
anxiety
 
Very common condition
Impacts on functioning
Parents can help young people recover
from mild to moderate anxiety using self
help resources, and not necessarily need
formal therapeutic support.
 
The science
 
The effects
 
Anxiety curve
 
Causes of Anxiety
 
Anxiety cycle
 
Anxiety cycle
 
Situation: noise at night
Thought: It is a burglar
Feeling: anxiety
Body: heart beats fast, chest tight, mouth
dry
Behaviour: Hide under
 covers
 
Alternative cycle
 
Situation: noise at night
Thought: It is the cat
Feeling: annoyance at being woken
Body:  a bit restless
Behaviour: turn over and go back to sleep
 
What does the science tell us
 
Anxiety is physical as well as psychological
 Anxiety makes us want to leave a
situation—’flight’
If we stay in the situation long enough,
anxiety will come down (the curve)
Anxiety is a horrid feeling so we need
help to reduce it to bearable levels, so we
can stay in the situation long enough
 
Early signs
 
Physical symptoms on week days
Repeatedly ask to visit the school nurse
Common physical symptoms include
headaches, stomach aches, nausea, or
diarrhoea. Also tantrums, inflexibility,
separation anxiety, avoidance, and
defiance. More time in their rooms and
do less than they did previously
 
Useful Strategies/What works
 
Relaxation training/worry surfing
Breaking it down into more manageable
steps
Worrying thought to more realistic
thought
Coping self statements
Problem solving
 
What works 1
 
Doing something to make yourself feel
better
Relaxation training
Breathing/visualisation
Worry surfing
 
What works 2
 
Tips for smaller steps
 
Do it gradually. Start at the point where
they can manage and where their anxiety
is a 2 out of 10.  Help them stay at that
step long enough for anxiety to come
down. Repeat again and again until
confident. Help them do realistic thinking
before, during and after the step. Don’t be
discouraged by setbacks. Get them to self
praise and you praise also.
 
What works 3
 
Catching the thought
(important to write it )
 
 
 
Looking for the evidence
 
What works 3 (cont’d)
 
Analysing
What has happened before in similar
situations
What has happened to other people
What is most likely to happen
 
 
 
Sample in practice
 
I am worried about going back to school
after the summer break as I will not fit in
Some other people are also likely to have
similar worries but there are some who
will just go in and be fine
Last year I did not fit in until the October
half term
Most likely the first few weeks will be
really hard but it is likely to get better
 
What works 4
 
Coping self statements
Encouraging- not telling off
Stroking, not poking
 
 
Sample coping statements
 
I felt really anxious before my mock
exams but managed to get in for 5 out of
10 and it got easier towards the end. My
teachers and parents were pleased and so
was I.
I found it so hard to go to school on
Monday but by Thursday it felt easier. I felt
anxious but also proud of myself.
The morning lesson was the worst but by
period 3 I felt better—I can manage this
 
What works 5
 
Problem solving
Write down the problem
Brainstorm all possible solutions.
Write down pros and cons of each
Choose one and try it
See how it worked and tweak it if it didn’t
 
Sample problem
 
It is very hard to get into school on
Monday morning
Possible solutions: Don’t go to school at
all
Skip Monday and go on Tuesday
Go in later on Monday
Arrange to do something on Monday
which helps me feel better like helping
junior class in Learning support
 
Pros and Cons for not going
Monday
 
Pros
Anxiety will go down
I won’t have to do Drama
I will have a 3 day weekend
Cons
I will feel bad that I did not manage
Tuesday will be harder, the new Monday
My friends will ask why I was not there
I will miss out on lessons and break activities
 
 
 
Summary
 
Anxiety leads to avoidance
‘The two A’s are friends but they are not
your friend’
Catch avoidance patterns early
Use worry surfing/relaxation training, step
ladders, realistic thinking, remembering
successes and problem solving
Anxiety is infectious and bounces
between parents and children
 
Practice task-smaller steps
 
An 11 year old says they don’t want to go
to school .
This happens two weeks after secondary
transfer and there are no obvious
stressful incidents
Break down the task of getting back to
school into smaller tasks
 
Practice task—answering back
worrying thought
 
Remember the last time you were
anxious
Working in pairs, go through these steps
-write down thought
What has happened to you or others
before
What is most likely to happen
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Dr. Amina Tareen, a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, discusses the importance of managing anxiety in school attendees. She emphasizes that anxiety is common, affects daily functioning, and can be supported by parents through self-help resources. The presentation covers the science, effects, causes, and cycles of anxiety, illustrating how thoughts and behaviors impact anxiety levels. Strategies are offered to reduce anxiety and stay in challenging situations longer for effective coping.

  • Anxiety Management
  • School Attendance
  • Child Psychiatry
  • Self-Help Resources
  • Mental Health

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  1. Anxiety related to School Attendance Dr Amina Tareen Consultant Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Barnet Honorary Teaching Fellow, Imperial College

  2. Recall the most recent time you felt anxious Bring it alive again in your mind Recall the situation Recall your thoughts Recall your feelings Recall the sensations in your body

  3. Why focus this talk on managing anxiety Very common condition Impacts on functioning Parents can help young people recover from mild to moderate anxiety using self help resources, and not necessarily need formal therapeutic support.

  4. The science

  5. The effects

  6. Anxiety curve

  7. Causes of Anxiety

  8. Anxiety cycle

  9. Anxiety cycle Situation: noise at night Thought: It is a burglar Feeling: anxiety Body: heart beats fast, chest tight, mouth dry Behaviour: Hide under covers

  10. Alternative cycle Situation: noise at night Thought: It is the cat Feeling: annoyance at being woken Body: a bit restless Behaviour: turn over and go back to sleep

  11. What does the science tell us Anxiety is physical as well as psychological Anxiety makes us want to leave a situation flight If we stay in the situation long enough, anxiety will come down (the curve) Anxiety is a horrid feeling so we need help to reduce it to bearable levels, so we can stay in the situation long enough

  12. Early signs Physical symptoms on week days Repeatedly ask to visit the school nurse Common physical symptoms include headaches, stomach aches, nausea, or diarrhoea. Also tantrums, inflexibility, separation anxiety, avoidance, and defiance. More time in their rooms and do less than they did previously

  13. Useful Strategies/What works Relaxation training/worry surfing Breaking it down into more manageable steps Worrying thought to more realistic thought Coping self statements Problem solving

  14. What works 1 Doing something to make yourself feel better Relaxation training Breathing/visualisation Worry surfing

  15. What works 2

  16. Tips for smaller steps Do it gradually. Start at the point where they can manage and where their anxiety is a 2 out of 10. Help them stay at that step long enough for anxiety to come down. Repeat again and again until confident. Help them do realistic thinking before, during and after the step. Don t be discouraged by setbacks. Get them to self praise and you praise also.

  17. What works 3 Catching the thought (important to write it ) Looking for the evidence

  18. What works 3 (contd) Analysing What has happened before in similar situations What has happened to other people What is most likely to happen

  19. Sample in practice I am worried about going back to school after the summer break as I will not fit in Some other people are also likely to have similar worries but there are some who will just go in and be fine Last year I did not fit in until the October half term Most likely the first few weeks will be really hard but it is likely to get better

  20. What works 4 Coping self statements Encouraging- not telling off Stroking, not poking

  21. Sample coping statements I felt really anxious before my mock exams but managed to get in for 5 out of 10 and it got easier towards the end. My teachers and parents were pleased and so was I. I found it so hard to go to school on Monday but by Thursday it felt easier. I felt anxious but also proud of myself. The morning lesson was the worst but by period 3 I felt better I can manage this

  22. What works 5 Problem solving Write down the problem Brainstorm all possible solutions. Write down pros and cons of each Choose one and try it See how it worked and tweak it if it didn t

  23. Sample problem It is very hard to get into school on Monday morning Possible solutions: Don t go to school at all Skip Monday and go on Tuesday Go in later on Monday Arrange to do something on Monday which helps me feel better like helping junior class in Learning support

  24. Pros and Cons for not going Monday Pros Anxiety will go down I won t have to do Drama I will have a 3 day weekend Cons I will feel bad that I did not manage Tuesday will be harder, the new Monday My friends will ask why I was not there I will miss out on lessons and break activities

  25. Summary Anxiety leads to avoidance The two A s are friends but they are not your friend Catch avoidance patterns early Use worry surfing/relaxation training, step ladders, realistic thinking, remembering successes and problem solving Anxiety is infectious and bounces between parents and children

  26. Practice task-smaller steps An 11 year old says they don t want to go to school . This happens two weeks after secondary transfer and there are no obvious stressful incidents Break down the task of getting back to school into smaller tasks

  27. Practice taskanswering back worrying thought Remember the last time you were anxious Working in pairs, go through these steps -write down thought What has happened to you or others before What is most likely to happen

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