Just Like Dad?

 
Just Like
Dad?
 
Each of us has an image of the way that the ideal
father believes and acts.  Read each statement
below.
Use a scale of 1-5:
 
1=  Don’t want at all
 
3= Doesn’t really matter
 
5=  Always wanted
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to
the ideal father that you have always wanted.  On
the second line, rank the question as it relates to
your real father.  Directions for the third line will
be explained at a later point.
 
 
1=Don’t want at all   3=Doesn’t really matter  5= Always wanted
 
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to the ideal father that
you have always wanted.  On the second line, rank the question as it
relates to your real father.
 
An ideal father’s job description:
 
1.
He is present on a regular basis. __  __  __
 
2.
His life is a good model for me to follow.  __  __  __
 
3.
He listens to my words for the feelings that they express. __  __  __
 
4.
He embraces who I truly am.  __  __  __
 
 
 
 
1=Don’t want at all   3=Doesn’t really matter  5= Always wanted
 
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to the ideal father
that you have always wanted.  On the second line, rank the question
as it relates to your real father.
 
An ideal father’s job description:
 
 
5.
He demonstrates how to treat women respectfully. __  __  __
 
6.
He has a good work ethic and also expects me to follow through
on my tasks.  __  __  __
 
7.
He has a strong core and he achieves his goals.  __  __  __
 
 
 
 
1=Don’t want at all   3=Doesn’t really matter  5= Always wanted
 
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to the ideal father
that you have always wanted.  On the second line, rank the question
as it relates to your real father.
 
An ideal father’s job description:
 
8.
He helps others.  __  __  __
 
9.
He is willing to play with me.  __  __  __
 
10.
He follows and honors God. __  __  __
 
 
Uzziah
2 Chronicles 26
 
 
1=Don’t want at all   3=Doesn’t really matter  5= Always wanted
 
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to the ideal father that you
have always wanted.  On the second line, rank the question as it relates to
your real father.
 
An ideal father’s job description:
 
11.
Physically, he takes care of himself.  __  __  __
 
12.
He is fun to spend time with.  __  __  __
 
13.
He disciplines in a constructive way and controls his anger. __  __  __
 
14.
 He handles hurt and grief in ways that are not harmful.  __  __  __
 
15.
He courageously tries new things.  __  __  __
 
 
1=Don’t want at all   3=Doesn’t really matter  5= Always wanted
 
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to the ideal father that you
have always wanted.  On the second line, rank the question as it relates to
your real father.
 
An ideal father’s job description:
 
 
16.
He teaches me practical life skills.  __  __  __
 
17.
He exhibits self-discipline and self-control.  __  __  __
 
18.
He has taught and modeled healthy sexuality.  __  __  __
 
19.
He is a loyal friend.  __  __  __
 
20.
He is someone I am proud of.  __  __  __
 
 
 
 
“It behooves a father to be
blameless if he expects his
child to be.”
-Homer
 
 
1=Don’t want at all   3=Doesn’t really matter  5= Always wanted
 
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to the ideal father
that you have always wanted.  On the second line, rank the question
as it relates to your real father.
 
An ideal father’s job description:
 
21.
He lives according to good moral principles.  __  __  __
 
22.
He corrects his errors in positive ways.  __  __  __
 
23.
He is an encourager.  __  __  __
 
24.
He displays an optimistic attitude.  __  __  __
 
25.
He is a source of wisdom.  __  __  __
 
 
 
 
 
 
1=Don’t want at all   3=Doesn’t really matter  5= Always wanted
 
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to the ideal father
that you have always wanted.  On the second line, rank the question
as it relates to your real father.
 
An ideal father’s job description:
 
26.
He is not involved in substance abuse.  __  __  __
 
27.
He makes those around him feel safe.  __  __  __
 
28.
He is kind.  __  __  __
 
29.
He sees each individual as having value.  __  __  __
 
30.
He appreciates nature and the environment.  __  __  __
 
 
 
 
1=Don’t want at all   3=Doesn’t really matter  5= Always wanted
 
On the first line, rank the question as it relates to the ideal father that you
have always wanted.  On the second line, rank the question as it relates to
your real father.
 
An ideal father’s job description:
 
31.  He includes me in his interests.  __  __  __
 
32.
He demonstrates LARGE CARE to those whom he loves.  (Listening,
Attention, Respect, Genuineness, Energy, Communication, Affection,
Responsibility, Empathy).  __  __  __
 
33.
He enjoys learning and encourages me to learn.  __  __  __
 
34.
He is flexible and open to change.  __  __  __
 
35.
He is a knight.  __  __  __
 
 
Add up the numbers you chose for the
first set of lines and place the total
number here:  ___
 
This number in an indication of your
agreement with your father’s job
description.  If you believe that all of
these characteristics are vital for
fatherhood, there are 175 possible
points.
 
Add up the numbers you chose for the
second set of lines and place the total
here:  ___
 
This is how well your Dad fulfilled
what you desired of him.
 
The last line is for those of you who are
courageous enough to score yourself on
these important attributes.
 
Your total score:  ___
 
How much are you like your Dad?  How
does that feel?
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A heartwarming and relatable journey showcasing the special bond between a child and their father, navigating through life's ups and downs. Explore the experiences, lessons, and memories that shape a child's understanding and emulation of their dad. This story captures the essence of familial love, growth, and influence, highlighting the parallels often seen between generations.

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