Effective Strategies for Mentoring, Coaching, and Nurturing Growth

 
GUIDELINES AND PITFALLS TO
AVOID IN MENTORING,
COACHING
 AND 
NURTURING
 
Part - 1
Creating a Culture of Mentoring,
Coaching and Nurturing People
 
Part - 2
How to Mentor, Coach and
Nurture People
 
Part - 3
Guidelines and Pitfalls to Avoid
i
n Mentoring, Coaching and
Nurturing
 
Part - 4
Positive Outcomes of a
Mentoring Culture
 
GUIDELINES AND PITFALLS TO
AVOID IN MENTORING,
COACHING
 AND 
NURTURING
 
Philippians 2:19,20
19 But I trust in the Lord Jesus to
send Timothy to you shortly, that I
also may be encouraged when I
know your state.
20 For I have no one like-minded,
who will sincerely care for your state.
 
Philippians 2:21,22
21 For all seek their own, not the
things which are of Christ Jesus.
22 But you know his proven
character, that as a son with his
father he served with me in the
gospel.
 
2 Timothy 3:10,11
10 But you have carefully followed
my doctrine, manner of life, purpose,
faith, longsuffering, love,
perseverance,
11 persecutions, afflictions, which
happened to me at Antioch, at
Iconium, at Lystra—what
persecutions I endured. And out of
them all the Lord delivered me.
 
MAINTAINING A HEALTHY
MENTOR-MENTEE RELATIONSHIP
 
Proverbs 27:17
As iron sharpens iron, So a man
sharpens the countenance of his
friend.
 
THE HEART OF A GOOD MENTOR
 
1 Thessalonians 2:7,8
7 But we were gentle among you,
just as a nursing mother cherishes
her own children.
8 So, affectionately longing for you,
we were well pleased to impart to
you not only the gospel of God, but
also our own lives, because you had
become dear to us.
 
1. Sincere
2. Secure
3. Serving
 
THE COMMITMENT AND
RESPONSIBILITIES OF A GOOD
MENTEE
 
1 Timothy 5:17
Let the elders who rule well be
counted worthy of double honor,
especially those who labor in the
word and doctrine.
 
1. Honor
2. Confidentiality
3. Apply
4. Gratitude
5
.
 Multiply
 
GUIDELINES
 
2 Corinthians 1:24
Not that we have dominion over
your faith, but are fellow workers for
your joy; for by faith you stand.
 
1. Maintain healthy relational
boundaries.
 
2. Do not control, manipulate, or
abuse spiritual influence.
 
3. Celebrate their successes and
especially if they go beyond you.
 
4. Encourage them to learn and
receive through other genuine
mentors.
 
PITFALLS TO AVOID
 
Luke 6:39
And He spoke a parable to them:
"Can the blind lead the blind? Will
they not both fall into the ditch?
 
 Avoid Compassion Without
  
Correction
 Avoid Insecurity
 Avoid Jealousy
 Avoid Being Overprotective
 Avoid Being Controlling
 Avoid Over-Involvement
 Avoid Being Dictatorial
 Avoid Emotional Attachments
 
WORKING THROUGH GROWTH
PAINS
 
 Resistance to change
 Reluctance to challenges
 Reaction to correction
 
WHEN TO PHASE OUT THE
MENTOR-MENTEE RELATIONSHIP
 
LEARNING FROM MISTAKES THE
CHURCH HAS MADE
 
The Shepherding Movement
1970s-1980s
 
Spiritual Fathers and the Orphan
spirit
 
Matthew 23:9
Do not call anyone on earth your
father; for One is your Father, He
who is in heaven.
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Explore essential guidelines, pitfalls to avoid, and biblical references for successful mentoring, coaching, and nurturing relationships. Discover how to create a culture of support, navigate mentorship challenges, and maintain healthy mentor-mentee dynamics while drawing wisdom from verses in Philippians and Timothy.

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  1. GUIDELINES AND PITFALLS TO AVOID IN MENTORING, COACHING AND NURTURING

  2. Part - 1 Creating a Culture of Mentoring, Coaching and Nurturing People

  3. Part - 2 How to Mentor, Coach and Nurture People

  4. Part - 3 Guidelines and Pitfalls to Avoid in Mentoring, Coaching and Nurturing

  5. Part - 4 Positive Outcomes of a Mentoring Culture

  6. GUIDELINES AND PITFALLS TO AVOID IN MENTORING, COACHING AND NURTURING

  7. Philippians 2:19,20 19 But I trust in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you shortly, that I also may be encouraged when I know your state. 20 For I have no one like-minded, who will sincerely care for your state.

  8. Philippians 2:21,22 21 For all seek their own, not the things which are of Christ Jesus. 22 But you know his proven character, that as a son with his father he served with me in the gospel.

  9. 2 Timothy 3:10,11 10 But you have carefully followed my doctrine, manner of life, purpose, faith, longsuffering, love, perseverance, 11 persecutions, afflictions, which happened to me at Antioch, at Iconium, at Lystra what persecutions I endured. And out of them all the Lord delivered me.

  10. MAINTAINING A HEALTHY MENTOR-MENTEE RELATIONSHIP

  11. Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.

  12. THE HEART OF A GOOD MENTOR

  13. 1 Thessalonians 2:7,8 7 But we were gentle among you, just as a nursing mother cherishes her own children. 8 So, affectionately longing for you, we were well pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God, but also our own lives, because you had become dear to us.

  14. 1. Sincere 2. Secure 3. Serving

  15. THE COMMITMENT AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF A GOOD MENTEE

  16. 1 Timothy 5:17 Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in the word and doctrine.

  17. 1. Honor 2. Confidentiality 3. Apply 4. Gratitude 5. Multiply

  18. GUIDELINES

  19. 2 Corinthians 1:24 Not that we have dominion over your faith, but are fellow workers for your joy; for by faith you stand.

  20. 1. Maintain healthy relational boundaries. 2. Do not control, manipulate, or abuse spiritual influence. 3. Celebrate their successes and especially if they go beyond you. 4. Encourage them to learn and receive through other genuine mentors.

  21. PITFALLS TO AVOID

  22. Luke 6:39 And He spoke a parable to them: "Can the blind lead the blind? Will they not both fall into the ditch?

  23. Avoid Compassion Without Correction Avoid Insecurity Avoid Jealousy Avoid Being Overprotective Avoid Being Controlling Avoid Over-Involvement Avoid Being Dictatorial Avoid Emotional Attachments

  24. WORKING THROUGH GROWTH PAINS

  25. Resistance to change Reluctance to challenges Reaction to correction

  26. WHEN TO PHASE OUT THE MENTOR-MENTEE RELATIONSHIP

  27. LEARNING FROM MISTAKES THE CHURCH HAS MADE

  28. The Shepherding Movement 1970s-1980s

  29. Spiritual Fathers and the Orphan spirit

  30. Matthew 23:9 Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven.

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