Cultivating a Positive Attitude for Personal and Professional Excellence
Positive Attitude
for
Personal and Professional
Excellence
Dr. Kedar Rayamajhi
Behaviour
Changing Behavior can be an
extremely difficult and
complex task.
Five Cancerous Behaviours
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Criticising
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Complaining
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Comparing
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Competing
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Contending
Stephen Covey
Human mind is so powerful, it can
invent, create, experience, and
destroy things with
thoughts
alone.
Attitude is more important than what
past, than education, than money, than
circumstances, than what people do and
say. It is more important than
appearance, giftedness, or skill.
Charles Swindool
Pause and ponder
•
Invisible things are more important than the
visible.
•
Concepts are invisible: love, sorrow but we
do not see but can feel it.
•
Bring all the army of the world,
attitude
of a single man
is more powerful than
all the army of the world.
The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the
intangible, and achieves the impossible.
Unknown
“Ninety percent of the input in your minds today is
negative.”
Zig Ziglar
Pause and Ponder
Pause and Ponder
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We all have an inspiration or purpose
in life.
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Act responsibly.
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If yes then only life would be
meaningful
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Definition of Attitude
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Attitude is multi-dimensional. So you need to
apply the learned attitude in workplace and
becomes million fold.
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Attitude is nothing more than
self
programming
.
CONTINUED…
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Due to self programming we succeed in
business, family, service, friendship or even
war.
•
Research Focus Magzin asked the question:
How our world will end?
Most of them said
“ the most dangerous
problem is the negative thinking or attitude”.
The danger is “the people who psychologically
justify his/her negative attitude is right.
•
So you don’t need to be Gandhi, Mandela,
Lincoln or important person of the world but
need positive thinking.
•
Your positive thinking will make you great
and important.
•
So we need a break from your attitude.
Some examples
…
•
Eric Van Henman, French Canadian was a blind
who climbed Mt. Everest at the age of 35.
•
Lexan Ciara started his journey to US at the age
of 13 and finally studied in US did his Ph. D
from Cambridge and wrote a famous book
named
“Looming Shadow”.
•
Ben Carson, famous neuro-surgeon never went
school.
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Victor Frankla once wrote
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"Everything can be taken from a person
but one thing:
the last of human freedoms
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to choose
one's attitudes in any given
set of
circumstances,
to choose one's own way."
You could be faced
with a
thousand
problems
,
many or most over
which you have
absolutely no
control.
HOWEVER
,
there is always one
thing you are in
complete and
absolute control of
and
that is your own
attitude.
Benefits of positive attitude
Helps achieving goals and attain success
Success achieve faster and more easily
More happiness
More energy
Greater inner peace and strength
Ability to face difficulties
Life smiles at you
People respect you
Positive Responses
These are the enthusiastic people who say:
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“Terrific.”
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“Fantastic.”
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“Great.”
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“Excellent.”
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“Super.”
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“I’m on top of the world.”
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“It doesn’t get any better.”
Negative Responses
The negative replies to How are you? include
phrases such as:
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“Lousy.”
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“Terrible.”
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“I’m tired.”
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“Don’t ask, It's not my day.
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“Thank God it’s Friday.”
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“A day older and a dollar broker.”
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For instance, widening gap in income
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Artists do not look at a landscape and ask
what is wrong
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focus is to look for
what is valuable
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Strength matters
सकारात्मक संवेग
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शान्त र सौम्य
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स्थिरता
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प्रेम र करुणा
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निर्मलता
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चरित्रवान
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Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain—
And most fools do.
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—DALE CARNEGIE
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The only disability in life is a bad attitude.
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—SCOTT HAMILTON
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नकारात्मक मनोवृत्तिका लक्षणहरु
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आफ्नो संगठनको बारेमा सार्वजनिक स्थलमा
आलोचना गर्नु
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सदैब कमी कमजोरी खोज्नु
•
कामलाई गम्भिरतापूर्वक नलिनु
•
क्षमता लुकाउनु
A negative attitude can lead to:
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Carelessness
• Ignorance
• Fatalism.
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Not sensitive
• Cynicism
• Laziness
• Recklessness
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Factors Affecting the Quality of
Service
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Reliability
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Confidence
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Responsiveness
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Efficiency
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Consistency
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Acceptance of and adherence to policies and
procedures
Attitude Checklist
What attitudes assist in providing good
service?
•
Enjoy helping people
•
Handle people well (Active listening, E. Q.)
•
Care for your customers
•
Give fair and equal treatment to all
•
Be understanding of people with special
needs
Have we ever thought?
•
Large proportion of potentials is unused
at individual and organizations level.
•
What would happen if we can see and
unleash some of these potentials?
A new way of thinking and doing is the
most….
“No problem can be solved from
the same level of thinking that
created it. We must learn to see
the world anew.”
-Albert Einstein
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Learning is not an option it is the necessity.
मानिसहरु किनसिक्न चाहदैनन
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म बुढो भए भन्ने सोच
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सिक्ने भन्ने त पाठशालामा मात्र हुन्छ भन्ने
मानसिकता
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मलाई कसैले सिकाउन सक्तैन भन्ने विचार
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सिकेर के हुन्छ
?
पद वा पैसा पाइन्न भन्ने
विचार
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सिक्न खोज्दा झण्झट र दुःख हुने भय
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अरुले के भन्लान् भनेर
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लाजमर्दो हुन्छ भनेर
)
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सिक्यो भने फाइदा हुन्छ भन्ने ज्ञान नभएर
Kind of “Glasses of listening and learning”
that people generally carry
Is positive thinking ignoring reality?
Positive thinking is not ignoring reality.
Positive thinkers look for the best in a situation.
They do not ignore the negative event, just that they
accept it and look for ways to make things more positive.
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FEELING
Why we need change?
•
If you want to make a difference,
you have to make a new beginning,
new contribution to your family/
organization/ society/ and the
nation. (Dasha vs Deesha)
Life is redesignable – rewrite the
story
Results are not accidental. Transfer
your learning into action.
Everyone has a will to win but very
few have the will to prepare to win.
Leave the legacy.
Healthy Attitude.
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much
fault you find with another, and regardless of
how much you blame him, it will not change you.
WAYNE DYER
Coauthor of
How to Get What You Really, Really, Really, Really
Want
Continued…
We have a choice every day regarding the
attitude we will embrace for the day. Life
is 10% what happens to us and 90% how
we react to it. Our attitude is everything.
Charles Swindool
You are the designer of your destiny. You are
the author. You write the story. The pen is in
your hand and the outcome is in your hand.
Lisa Nichols
सकारात्मक सोच राख्ने उपायहरु
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आफ्नो दृष्टिकोणको केन्द्रलाई परिवर्तन
गर्नुहोस
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कुनै पनि काम भोलि गर्छु भनी ढिलो
नगर्नुहोस
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सदैब खुशी हुने र धन्यवाद दिने गर्नुहोस ।
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शिक्षा वा प्रशिक्षण लिन नछाड्नुहोस ।
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आत्म विश्वासका साथ अगाडि बढ्नुहोस ।
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नकारात्मक व्यवहार भएको संगत छाड्नुहोस ।
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गर्नु पर्ने काम मन नपरे पनि गर्नुहोस् ।
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आफ्ना हरेक विहानहरु सकारात्मक सोच र
व्यवहार गरेर शुरु गर्नुहोस ।
Ratan Tata sayings
•
If you see the moon, you see the beauty of
god, if you see the sun, you see the power of
god and
if you see the mirror, you are best
creation of god.
So believe in yourself.
Towards a successful life
The greatest discovery of my
generation is that human beings can
alter their lives by altering their
attitude of mind.
William James
Mail: rayamajhikedar7gamil.com
Phone: 9841344625
Embrace the power of a positive attitude for personal and professional growth. Learn to shift behaviors, avoid cancerous habits, harness the strength of the human mind, and prioritize attitude over circumstances. Understand the significance of invisible concepts, the influence of one's mindset, and the importance of responsibility in finding purpose. Embrace paradigm shifts and self-programming to achieve success in all aspects of life.
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Positive Attitude for Personal and Professional Excellence Dr. Kedar Rayamajhi
Behaviour Changing Behavior can be an extremely difficult complex task. and
Five Cancerous Behaviours Criticising Complaining Comparing Competing Contending Stephen Covey
Human mind is so powerful, it can invent, create, experience, and destroy things with thoughts alone.
Attitude is more important than what past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than what people do and say. It is more appearance, giftedness, or skill. important than Charles Swindool
Pause and ponder Invisible things are more important than the visible. Concepts are invisible: love, sorrow but we do not see but can feel it. Bring all the army of the world, attitude of a single man is more powerful than all the army of the world.
Pause and Ponder The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible. Unknown Ninety percent of the input in your minds today is negative. Zig Ziglar
Pause and Ponder We all have an inspiration or purpose in life. Act responsibly. If yes then only life would be meaningful.
Paradigm Shift When paradigms shift: the rules change we all go back to zero Those who say it cannot be done, should get out of the way of those who are doing .
Definition of Attitude Attitude is multi-dimensional. So you need to apply the learned attitude in workplace and becomes million fold. Attitude is nothing more than self programming.
CONTINUED Due to self programming we succeed in business, family, service, friendship or even war. Research Focus Magzin asked the question: How our world will end? Most of them said the most dangerous problem is the negative thinking or attitude . The danger is the people who psychologically justify his/her negative attitude is right.
So you dont need to be Gandhi, Mandela, Lincoln or important person of the world but need positive thinking. Your positive thinking will make you great and important. So we need a break from your attitude.
Some examples Eric Van Henman, French Canadian was a blind who climbed Mt. Everest at the age of 35. Lexan Ciara started his journey to US at the age of 13 and finally studied in US did his Ph. D from Cambridge and wrote a famous book named Looming Shadow . Ben Carson, famous neuro-surgeon never went school.
If it is clear you cant achieve goals, change your goals change your actions. don't
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You could be faced with a thousand problems, many or most over which you have absolutely no control. HOWEVER, there is always one thing you are in complete and absolute control of and that is your own attitude. Victor Frankla once wrote, "Everything can be taken from a person but one thing: the last of human freedoms - to choose one's attitudes in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way." Frankl
Benefits of positive attitude Helps achieving goals and attain success Success achieve faster and more easily More happiness More energy Greater inner peace and strength Ability to face difficulties Life smiles at you People respect you
Positive Responses These are the enthusiastic people who say: Terrific. Fantastic. Great. Excellent. Super. I m on top of the world. It doesn t get any better.
Negative Responses The negative replies to How are you? include phrases such as: Lousy. Terrible. I m tired. Don t ask, It's not my day. Thank God it s Friday. A day older and a dollar broker.
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Reference anxiety: For instance, widening gap in income distribution increases anxiety of lower income group. reference
Artists do not look at a landscape and ask what is wrong with the picture, their focus is to look for what is valuable. Strength matters
Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain And most fools do. DALE CARNEGIE The only disability in life is a bad attitude. SCOTT HAMILTON
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A negative attitude can lead to: Carelessness Ignorance Fatalism. Not sensitive Cynicism Laziness Recklessness
THE ICEBERG BEHAVIOR KNOWN TO OTHERS SEA LEVEL UNKNOWN TO OTHERS IMPACT VALUES STANDARDS JUDGMENTS ATTITUDE MOTIVES ETHICS - BELIEFS
Factors Affecting the Quality of Service Reliability Confidence Responsiveness Efficiency Consistency Acceptance of and adherence to policies and procedures
Attitude Checklist What attitudes assist in providing good service? Enjoy helping people Handle people well (Active listening, E. Q.) Care for your customers Give fair and equal treatment to all Be understanding of people with special needs
Have we ever thought? Large proportion of potentials is unused at individual and organizations level. What would happen if we can see and unleash some of these potentials?
A new way of thinking and doing is the most . No problem can be solved from the same level of thinking that created it. We must learn to see the world anew. -Albert Einstein
Learning is the key Learning is not an option it is the necessity.
Kind of Glasses of listening and learning that people generally carry
Is positive thinking ignoring reality? Positive thinking is not ignoring reality. Positive thinkers look for the best in a situation. They do not ignore the negative event, just that they accept it and look for ways to make things more positive.
Putting on Putting on the Armor the Armor
Why we need change? If you want to make a difference, you have to make a new beginning, new contribution to your family/ organization/ society/ and the nation. (Dasha vs Deesha)
Life is redesignable rewrite the story Results are not accidental. Transfer your learning into action. Everyone has a will to win but very few have the will to prepare to win. Leave the legacy. Healthy Attitude.
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. WAYNE DYER Coauthor of How to Get What You Really, Really, Really, Really Want
Continued We have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for the day. Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. Our attitude is everything. Charles Swindool
You are the designer of your destiny. You are the author. You write the story. The pen is in your hand and the outcome is in your hand. Lisa Nichols
Ratan Tata sayings If you see the moon, you see the beauty of god, if you see the sun, you see the power of god and if you see the mirror, you are best creation of god. So believe in yourself.
The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitude of mind. William James
wGojfb Mail: rayamajhikedar7gamil.com Phone: 9841344625
